Change in me mentally?

Question

In High School, I had my share fare of flings with females..... but once I got into college I haven't been the same. I 've been giving every girl I meet the cold shoulder except for my close friends that I know nothing will happen with. Anybody got an idea of what's going on with me?

I also have lost a little bit of my social charm, possibly because no female seems to attract like in the past.

Answer 1

Maybe subconsciously your worried about how you will do with the older college girls. Maybe deep down inside you think you lack something the older girls would look for so you dont even give them the time of day. Its like "Get them before they get you".

Answer 2

Part of it may have to do with your confidence with the older girls as one poster said. High school is a different game than college in that it's a much simpler one.

On a more possitive note, maybe you're just growing up and realizing there's more to life than having girlfriends or "flings". There's a LOT of growing up done in those first few years out of high school and somewhat into your twenties. Especially going to college where there's a world of opportunities and expereinces at your disposal. You start figuring out who you are, what you want out of life, what you believe, etc. It's a confusing time. Maybe you just want to take some time off and figure out you first and see where that leads.

Hope you get it figured out.

Answer 3

Maybe you are gay. By the way do you know why the image won't trasfer? I run an hp indigo digial press and the ink goes to the developer drum and is attracted to the photo imaging plate then moves to the ITM blanket, however the image will not transfer to the substate. Any ideas?

Answer 4

you probably feel lost now that you're in an environment where you dont know many other people. you probably subconsiously feel like you are in over your head in this big place. do you know what i mean?

try to feel more comfortable at college. When you see these potential gfs, smile and say hi. even if it is forced. try to remember moves or charms you had in high school and practice them on random girls who you would never see agian, say, who you see in the mall or something.

Answer 5

that is becasue girls are more mature in college than in high school.... and it seems like you are full of yourself and they mgiht have believed you then but they dont know.... when people say ive had my fare share of anything, they usually havent.... and it soulds like you dont want to commit

Answer 6

I'm sure the girls will get over you.

Answer 7

growing up

Answer 8

YOU ARE SICK