i really dont know whats been happing to me but i ned answers,lately i feel like me and my boyfriend have been distance from each other like if hes not loving me how he use to. we've been together 4 3 months but i feel like really distance from him he said, to me that its all in my head, that maybe its only that i need more attention but i know its not that.what can i do so i wont feel this, what should i dodoes it mean he doesnt love me how he use to or what please help i dont want to lose him evern though he tells me he wants to marry me im still scared.
2007-01-04 07:07:31 · 8 answers · asked by dance4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your gut feeling, if you think something is wrong it probably is.
2007-01-04 07:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
In addition to feeling less loved is your CORE needs not being fed as much...are you aware of what they are??
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2007-01-04 15:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve only been together for 3 months. in my expierence, the first 6 months are always the hardest. you are getting close and comfortable and you are scared. just calm down and enjoy your relationship. if you continue to have these feeling past the 6 months mark, then you should reconsider. Eveyone goes through that. you should be okay.
2007-01-04 15:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be feeling it anymore. You've been together 4 months. I know you don't want to lose him but it's better that way if he's not going to be happy.
2007-01-04 15:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been 3 months neither one of you love each other and neither one of you want to get married to say you do really shows your age...whats the hurry you have the rest of your life to make a mistake and get married....3 months is the honeymoon stage now its time for REAL LIFE...good luck
2007-01-04 15:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some couples counselling, the two of you together, before you get married.
2007-01-04 15:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he said its in your head and that maybe you need more attention, did he try to give you more attention? maybe this will solve the question
2007-01-04 15:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probly lieing to you
2007-01-04 15:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by partybabe_59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋