well I'm with a guy who's a year younger than me but he's really mature but everyone is telling me to dump him and I kinda cheated on him well all I did was hug a guy and lean on him a little but the guy knew that I had a boy friend but my boyfriend really likes me I mean he's already told me he loves me but I don't see him or talk to him so what should i do? and was I wrong for doing what I did?
Please Help Me!!!!
2007-01-04 07:02:35 · 18 answers · asked by Lil' Momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't cheat, a hug is not cheating!
2007-01-04 07:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it that you think you cheated on this guy if all you did was hug someone else? You didn't have sex with him or kiss him so no worries about cheating on him. Who cares what your friends think? If you like or even love the guy then you should go for it because its your happiness thats what important not your friends they don't have to date the guy you do. Peer pressure is a b**** but you don't have to fall victim to it. Enjoy life cause its too short as it is and if you let others tell you who to date, when to date, how to date, then what kinda friends are they?
2007-01-04 07:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugging is not cheating....unless that lite up a spark inside of u that would make u feel something for this new guy. If u really like ur bf then forget about the whole hugging incident. Just make sure that u dont let that become something else. Dont worry u didnt cheat.
2007-01-04 07:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cheating isn't always a great thing,and to deturmin if it was right or wrong is depending on how you feel for the person you cheated on your boyfriend with.
And if your boyfriend loves you enough then maybe he should put more effort into seeing you and talking to you,because what's a relationship if you guys never communicate?
2007-01-04 07:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are ready for a serious relationship. Drop everyone, and concentrate on trying to find a person you don't have the urge to cheat on...If your boyfriend really has feelings for you, it is going to get ugly if he finds out you are cheating on him.
2007-01-04 07:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL on changing the undertaking to grease leaking! purely because of the fact she deletes particular products from her telephone etc, does no longer mean she is dishonest. I do this too. and that i'm going into yet another room because of the fact i'm shy conversing on the telephone or i do no longer desire to problem my husband. yet once you're married, you will desire to experience gentle chatting along with her approximately this. you may the two talk along with her right this moment on, or seize her in the act. for sure you behave this style considering the fact which you experience insecure approximately your marriage. She would desire to react certainly one of four techniques: If she isn't dishonest: a million) Deny she is dishonest (she incredibly isn't) and realizes that she would have injury you and turns into extra clean because of the fact she loves you and needs you to understand she values you 2) gets incredibly mad and insulted of you accusing her of this and turns into uncooperative If she is dishonest: 3) Admits it right this moment out 4) Denies it yet continues to be secretive. If she incredibly cared approximately you, i'd think of she would ease your insecurities by skill of turning into extra clean and introducing you to peeople from artwork. reliable success... purely ask her. despite if she is dishonest, you will desire to restoration the reason at the back of the concern, because of the fact dishonest is purely approximately continuously a symptom of a few thing else.
2016-10-30 00:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you hugged and leaned on him... How is that cheating??? Were there emotions involved??? If the answer is no, then where is the problem???
2007-01-04 07:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not cheating. People are allowed to hug.
2007-01-04 07:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll... I was in the situation b4... You didnt cheat it was just a hug...If you really lyke this guy then dont worry about wha your friendz say... Just stay with him... && If you feel guilty about it.. Tell your bf... I mean hed understand... It was just a hugg!
2007-01-04 07:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like that guy that way, or if that guy likes you that way, then yep, it's cheating. stay honest with yourself and your guy. you gotta pick just one. make sure most of your attentions are for only one person. it should be obvious to others who you are with, and people could think you are with the other guy if you do that. it hurts everyone involved. good question.
2007-01-04 07:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,you didn't cheat,so don't worry about that,Second,why should you dump your boyfriend? don't you love him? nobody should tell you what to do with your life,if you want to be with him,what's the problem?And third,what do you mean,you don't see or talk to him?talk to your boyfriend and settle things up.Good Luck!
2007-01-04 07:46:19 · answer #11 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋