I'm not sure my boyfriend is into me. The reason being is we live a long way from each other...and hardly see each other. Do you blame him for not being serious about me?
2007-01-04 06:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I make sure the spark is still there when I go to see him next week?!!
2007-01-04 06:56:39 · update #1
P.S. we've always lived apart! when we met, we were living in different towns
2007-01-04 07:00:42 · update #2
No. How can you be serious about a person you hardly see? And why would you want to?
2007-01-04 06:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better if the two of you saw each other more to see if the distance is the problem or if he really is falling out of love with you. I can't say I blame him for not being serious about you but, a long distance relationship can be extremely hard for you both. Try to find other ways of communication that can be a so,so face to face like a web cam. Good luck!
2007-01-04 15:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I broke up after my job took me on the road. He is still there when I call and tells me all I have to do is say the word and he'll come get me anytime anywhere. Time apart 1998...Miles apart 1500. So maybe your boyfriend is just not ready to get or be serious about anyone.
P.S. We are both in another relationship he still cares as do I for him. And I will go home one day soon.
2007-01-04 14:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard on both parties.
Try talking to him and try avoid blaming instead find out how both of you can build the chemistry again.
2007-01-04 14:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are a real challenge. Are you sure it's what you want? Re-evaluate the situation the next time you are together, if he leaves you in doubt about his interest, cut your losses and move on.
2007-01-04 15:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships hardly ever work out. Absence does not make the heart grow fonder. It's more like out of sight, out of mind.
Sorry.
2007-01-04 14:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships only work when both people are committed and honest with one another. If you are unsure about his feelings then this relationship is already doomed.
2007-01-04 14:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well long distant realtionships are hard... Buh if you really have feelings for eachother you have to try && make it work... It will take more effort buh its what you have to do...Just talk to him about it if your not that sure... Im sure if he is he'll understand
2007-01-04 14:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sadly it is hard to be serious with each other in Long term relationships.
2007-01-04 14:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~AmethystMoonBeams~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-04 14:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋