I believe i'm in love with 2 men. This has been going on for several years now. Is it possiable to truely love 2 men at the same time?
2007-01-04 06:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you can be... it happed to me.. but if you think about it... there is more about one of them you like/love more..
write a pro and con list on each...
good luck
2007-01-04 06:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I DON'T believe a person can be IN-LOVE with more than one person at a time. I believe you can love two people at a time. You can be IN - LOVE with one, and love another, but the deep intensity of IN-LOVE feelings only fills one gap, not two. Anyone who says they fell in love with more than one person at a time doesn't know the difference between love and being in-love. Being in-love involves giving and sharing yourself, heart and soul with another person. Your heart and soul just doesn't cater to more than one when you're in-love. If you are trying to do this sharing with MULTIPLE partners, then you're not truly in-love. You cannot give away yourself heart and soul to more than one person because it just doesn't work that way. It's like telling someone you can die twice or be born twice. Your heart and soul cannot be divided up and given to two differnt people. I am sure that you don't love both men equally.
2007-01-04 06:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is probably possible. But if you want to be happy, you are going to have to make a choice. If you try to balance both of them, you are going to lose both of them. I guarantee it. If you really love them, you do not want that, do you? Be smart. Talk your friends and family. Make an educated and sensible choice. Then tell the one you didn't choose the truth and let him go. Don't try to be his friend. Set him free so he can move on and find someone else. Then treat the one you picked well! And remember to remind him that you chose HIM whenever necessary. :-)
2007-01-04 07:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes... gone thro that but eventually i made my choice to end the 2nd relationship.
Right from the start, the 2nd guy knew that i was attached. so for awhile we were living in guilt about cheating on my "BF", who's still in the dark.
It will still remain a secret cos the friendship between us 3 is really special. Me & my "fling" made a pact never to say anything.
2007-01-05 22:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by milo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can be 'in love' with any number of men at the same time but it is very, very difficult to LOVE more than one man at a time.
2007-01-04 06:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is possible. Be careful though. It is quite a dangerous game.
2007-01-04 06:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by s_campbell_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why it couldn't be possible. I don't see anything wrong with it, as long as you're honest with everyone. Date them both, and eventually you'll figure out who's best.
2007-01-04 06:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sadly it does. it makes life really confusing but you eally can be in love with two men at the same time.
2007-01-04 06:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~AmethystMoonBeams~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant truly love someone if your not giving them your whole heart .
2007-01-04 06:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you... But tell them about each other... Are you interested in "having" them together???
2007-01-04 06:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋