ive noticed that the girl tht im seein likes to keep her friends updated on her situation w/ me. there were a few voicemails in her friends inbox of her where she talks bout me, althou they wouldnt let me hear what they said.does that mean she views me w/ a certain level of importance, and why do women do that? this chick told me she doesnt want anything serious but the more i hangout w/ her the more i feel she does, which is ok cause i like her alot and i wanna be w/ her but she has been confusing me so idk how to approach things w/ her and when i ask her the answer is always a myth. help?!
2007-01-04 06:50:09 · 5 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women do this a lot! I tell my friends a lot of things but I also like to keep the most juicy stuff between my boyfriend & I. If she didn't like you or didn't want to be with you then my opinion is she wouldn't be talking so much about her time with you.
Take it as a compliment... you are on her mind.
I know you said asking has not helped but try approaching it a little differently. Prepare a romantic setting. Dinner, candles etc. Make her feel special and let her know... "I like you. You mean alot to me. I want to know what you want because I know I want to be with you."
It seems like you are a nice guy who wants to treat her right so make sure she knows that.
Good Luck and Congratulations in advance!!!
2007-01-04 06:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just like to share stories with some girlfriends to a certain degree. I don't leave voicemail though. If I can't talk directly then I won't leave voicemail and tell my friends all about some boys that I like.
2007-01-04 14:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very important to her. EVERYONE knows about my boyfriend but only like 2 0r 3 people know about the others. If she talks about you like that she might want to be serious and she just wants you to say something first. When I met my boyfriend I wasnt trying to be serious and now we are in love and expecting our first child. her feelings could have changed. you have to show her that you are for real and ready to be serious.
2007-01-04 15:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls just like to express themselves...they can't bottled things ups...
dont worry about it..it's normal
2007-01-04 14:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with deliah.
2007-01-04 14:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mami-Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋