or would you ust leave it alone
2007-01-04 06:45:47 · 22 answers · asked by Suzanna G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he really wants u, he will come back to you.
2007-01-04 06:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if the guy has had quite a few girlfriends in the past but has been hurt then the very idea of him leaving you is so you chase him so he feels loved. many guys get it into their head that girls dont love them and they do get scared thats why the dump us. honestly if he really loves you n you dont chase him he will be back within a week. If you do chase him it will take a little longer because he is being chased by you and he will enjoy the feeling that you cant live with out him but he will make you suffer in order for him to feel wanted
2007-01-05 11:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by fiona127740 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your dignity and your self-respect.
Desperation is not attractive, it's embarrassing, and making a nuisance of yourself is not going to achieve what you want - unless what you want is for his heart to sink at the sight of you and wonder why he ever liked you. And honestly, you'll look back in a few years time and cringe.
The best way to make him realise he's made a mistake is to move on and be happy without him. That way he'll be reminded of all your good qualities, at a ladylike distance, and if he wants you back then he'll have to chase you. And if it doesn't work, you haven't wasted any time - you've been getting on with your life, which is just what you need to do to help you get over him.
2007-01-04 15:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Snakey B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's enough information to give a thoughtful answer. For example, how long were you together, why did he break up with you, what was the relationship like etc.
2007-01-04 15:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fight for about... a blink of an eye.There is no sense in crying over spilled milk!!!When he's shown complete disinterest,why bother? DUMPED,IS NOT IN MY VOCABULARY!!!!!!!!! It takes 2 to have a relationship.Oh how curiosity is bliss!!!!!!!!Life is wonderful! Why ruin his perfect life...lol ...lol..When he's discontented he'll realize how once he was happy & he'll think of me.Is that revenge enough?lol...lol...lol...lol...
2007-01-05 10:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a waste of time to fight for someone who has made it clear that they do not want you. Even if you do get them back, you will be their slave and will always have to look over your shoulder and work twice as hard to keep the relationship.
NOT WORTH IT!
2007-01-04 14:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the reason he dumped me.
2007-01-04 14:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes id fight for him.i was jsut in that situation and i fought for him still 6 months after we broke up but then i relized its over and it aint worth the fight ne more and that im wasting my time on a guy wen i could be wastin it on some one that cares and wants to be with me
2007-01-04 15:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Xtina12 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would leave him alone, because HE dumped me for SOME reason....no matter how much i would fight for him, i would just loose my time, because he doesn't WANT me anymore. Good luck!
2007-01-04 14:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by !Hot Babe! 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't annoy him, guys love it when girls persue them. I would give him his space. I always tell this to everyone, never give up hope! Pray and God will guide you through this difficult time. Hold out hope no matter what he or anyone else tells you. You have feelings and a bond with him that nobody understands. Please, don't give up!
2007-01-04 14:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him and find someone better
someday he regret to dump u
2007-01-04 14:55:12 · answer #11 · answered by xi xi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋