2007-01-04 06:43:23 · 19 answers · asked by kayanbean24 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can find me.
2007-01-04 06:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest five things.
1. Volunteer for charity, or get involved with other activities that interest you. By getting involved you increase the chances of meeting someone who is interested in the same things you are. Then once you are participating, talk to people!
2. Be yourself. You are a special person, and you should play on that. If you meet a man, and he likes you from the beginning for what you really are, that increases the likelihood that he'll love you and be a good guy.
3. Evaluate the guy based on who he REALLY is, and not on who you WANT him to be. Watch him. How does he treat other people? Is he good to his family? Does he have good values? If not, don't wait for him to change. He likely won't. Move on and find a man who is good to everyone around him. Then he'll be more likely to be good to YOU.
4. That said, don't be TOO fussy. NO ONE is perfect. Not a single person. I am honest and trustworthy. I treat my wife like a queen. I adore her and respect her as my equal. I also talk too loud, pick my nose, and forget to clean up the sink when I'm done shaving. These are really little and unimportant things, and most guys do it. Prioritize and accept a man for who he is, so long as his VALUES and CHARACTER are good.
5. Do not define yourself based on your relationships, or lack thereof. This goes back to being yourself, but it is important because love does not have a time schedule attached to it. There is no set date to do it. There is no set time for it to happen. If you worry too much about it, you could waste your life being lonely or be more likely to get into a BAD relationship! Consider the things about yourself that you like most, and define your life based on those things. YOU are your mashed potatoes. A good relationship is just the gravy.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 14:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know why you girls have a hard time finding a good guy when he is around you let me tell you what a good guy is he does not go to clubs and he does npt stay late at night he has a stable job he is quiet some times and he would be single too so if you are looking for some body like that let me know and i will be able to help you
2007-01-04 14:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age and requirements possibly an internet dating site, its not that you are a loser for going that route, honestly you wont find love at the bar or night club, so try one of those like match.com others that are lonely like yourself are sitting there waiting for you, its worth a try,and the good thing is their interests are listed so you are kinda on a blind date, but kinda know a little about em at the same time
2007-01-04 14:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at your single friends.. if they are your friends first that def helps. stay around happy and positive people.. usually those guys who are clean and sober .. the only thing you can do , is look at your present company, and look at yourself.. what kind of vibe are you presenting to others.. you wont have to do anything , if i a guy really loves you back, you wont even have to ask him if he loves you bc in your heart you will know.. good luck
2007-01-04 14:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by sm81206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to look hard and try ur luck everytime until you find a good egg out of the bad ones.
2007-01-04 14:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only going to happen when your patient and not looking for someone to love you.
the right man always comes along when your not looking for him, always unexpected. he'll find you
2007-01-04 14:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by simiarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing!!! they never know what they want!!! you just have to wait!! i just got of relationship and the guy talks about he misses me but he wants to be single.... we flirt and still hang-out but we're not together and the only person i want to kiss is him!! it's wierd and you never know!!! the truth is no one likes to be honest on how they feel.... i am a person who speaks her mind but you still dont want to be let down!!!
2007-01-04 14:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Renae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church and build your foundation on Christ. He will send you someone who will value you and love you. I did!
2007-01-04 14:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by goodflgirl2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try some new things..leave your old joints behind,,,go to new places...think differently....
the park is always good...."art" movie houses.....plus depends on the kinda guy you are looking or..
2007-01-04 14:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking and don't settle for second best. That's basically it.
2007-01-04 14:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋