2007-01-04 06:41:17 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's one of the most painful things to go through.
2007-01-04 06:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, a great deal of relationships fall in this category. If your in such a relationship, you may want to reconsider. These type hook-ups can lead to some type of abuse. Do you really want to be the only one who contributes ? I've seen many married people, after years of marriage, where one falls out of love with the other but the union goes on to the end of life. On the outside the union looked ideal but insiders know it's only a facade. I've seen couples in the same situation and one always seems to be seeing someone else. Eventually, one only has so much they can give to another if the relationship is one-sided.
2007-01-04 06:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by surfX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. Just because you love someone doesn't guarantee that you'll be loved back. Unfortunately, that is why it takes so long to find the right person...and why there is such a high divorce rate!
2007-01-04 06:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I really understand your question. However there are no rules or guidelines to love. But to truly love someone is to know them well, under many different lights. Seeing someone at their lowest point and still loving them, is true love. And yes love can be one sided, very easily and quite often. And that would be where you need to take a realistic look at the relationship.
2007-01-04 06:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by katie21545 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is possible. But I think you would have to of been in a relationship with this person first and then one person falls out of love with the other. How could you love someone without being involved with this person and really know them. Any thing is possible but I couldn't be in love with a person without knowing them well enough if I didn't it would be only lust for me.
2007-01-04 06:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that love peddled as neurotic love is man made through fact this is equipped on not something yet an concept that 'love' alights upon you like being shot with cupids arrow. Being able to love ability doing somewhat some paintings on your self to be a scarcity of blame and grievance and concern and all of the failings that knock out love. i don't think of love is something particular and bigger its purely what's left once you do away with each and every thing that's not love. once you're left with empathy compassion unconditional helpful regard and no defensiveness its there. i don't think of love is something you consume somewhat something which you're, below each and every of the grot.
2016-12-12 03:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but that is called infatuation and sometimes, obsession.
If they are not into you and you are into them, and there is no real reason to believe there is a chance, the only thing you can do is move on, and let them just be a person you think a lot of.
2007-01-04 06:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I loved a girl once who did not love me. Even after all these years of reflection and falling in love with my wonderful wife, yes - I did love her, and no, she did not love me.
I'm glad, actually. We really weren't compatible in a relationship way. We are still friends and I am long over her, but she was my first love. I don't know how her husband would feel if he knew I once professed my love to her (LONG before either of us met our spouses).
I believe the German word for it is Leibeslied. "A love that is not returned", or, literally, "love pain".
2007-01-04 06:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible
bcz love is not always two sided
it can hapen it is natural feeling and u cant force d other to love u too.
this is called infatuation or u can say attraction towards other which with the time turn into love
it ca n be so because the other person whom we love but he doesnt love back is vbery close to us.
2007-01-04 06:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweet girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, why do you think it's called taking a chance of getting hurt? Just because you love someone doesn't mean that they will love you back.
2007-01-04 06:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by middelmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This happens all the time unfortunately. It's called unrequited love.
2007-01-04 06:42:49 · answer #11 · answered by ashorething001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋