i really loved my ex and he knows this now all of a sudden hes calling me again and has a new girlfriend. he said that if he wasnt with her we would date again. now its weird b/c hes calling and be flirting on the phone and talks about how we used to be and things like i wont find another guy like him and not to mention he talks about when we uesd to have sex too!! im the last person he talks to b4 he goes to bed at night NOT his girlfriend, he even talks to me when he's with her!!!whats really going on?
2007-01-04 06:41:13 · 38 answers · asked by ashbeehp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't talk to him anymore. He's probably getting off on knowing you loved him and now he's got another girl and you too wrapped around his finger. As long as you keep encouraging him the more he is going to call you and play his sick mind games. If you want him back tell him to dump the other girl. Would you ever trust him again. He needs help and if you keep this up with him you will too.
2007-01-04 06:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 05:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My now ex-husband did this to me a few months ago and he was living with the frigging girl. He would tell me the same lines like I will never find anyone like him again (thank God, I won't) and would be extra flirtatious and also bring up sex. What I came to find out was that he had no intentions of reminiscing old times or really missing me, it was all just a ploy to have a booty call. If this guy was sincere and really cared about you or missed you, he wouldn't be with his gf, he would be with you and for the fact that he isn't and he's bringing up sex,you should not let your guard down. You might want to see him again and if you do, you might even give in but all that will really do is land you up being used and hurt. You should count your lucky stars that you will not ever find someone like him again and also that he's no longer your boyfriend because right now he has a gf and he's doing her wrong by talking about all of this stuff to you. I'm warning you now that this guy is out for one thing and one thing only and I don't want you to make the same mistake I did and feed into the lies and bullsh*t only to get hurt. Good luck to you but I would keep this guy at a distance and also remember to use your head on this one and not your heart because if you don't, you may land up doing something you will later regret. Take care:)
2007-01-04 06:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. Dump him. Stop talking to him. Do not answer his calls. I would even suggest telling his girlfriend, but she may think you are trying to get him back. So let her make her own mistakes with this loser. Even if he dumps her, the fact that he is doing these things is a great sign that he is immature and a cruddy boyfriend. You can DEFINITELY do better, because this guy is a manipulating jerk. Forget him. Move on. Hang out with your friends. Do some activities you enjoy. Have some fun. Give yourself some time to get over the guy, and then go find you a new man! You'll be happy you did.
2007-01-04 06:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a serious conversation with him on how you feel about the whole ordeal. I mean its good that y'all still talk,
but also let him know what y'all had is in the past. And he should focus on the new girlfriend. The way you're talkin it sounds like he hasn't gotten over you, and at some point I think he's doing those things to make her jealous or tryin to start something that isn't necessary. Just be safe and nip that in the bud with him now so things won't get out of control. I know he misses you but he has to move on you have. Good Luck Girrrrrrrrrrrl!
2007-01-04 07:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by EDNA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still wants his cake and to eat it to, say you get back together whats to say he wont call someone else while he is with you, move on cut ties with him cause there is a good chance you are going to be hurt in the long run just like his present girlfriend is when she finds out what game he is playing good luck.mick.
2007-01-04 06:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by mickves t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants what he doesn't have- you are being used as a security blanket. he is a player and was probably doing this while he was with you. don't get sucked in. options:
1. tell him not to call you unless he can not flirt or talk about you as a couple
2. tell him not to call
3. ask him if his gf knows he calls
4. call his gf and let her know he is playing you both
2007-01-04 06:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Booty Call. Leave him. Anyone who truly loves you, should not have girl friends. He should focus on you and work together get the relationship better. Guys who truly like you, won't be dating and will call back and say things about the past only to get the relationship better. Having a girl friend on the side and working with you, is just to get some.
2007-01-04 06:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by thewiseone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-02-12 11:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep you close so that if things don't work out with the other girl he will go back to you. I would talk to him and ask him why he does this. He may also just miss talking to you because you were more than bf/gf you were best friends.
2007-01-04 06:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by catoa3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋