he cheated but he says that he is sorry and that he still loves me how true can that be.
2007-01-04 06:31:57 · 41 answers · asked by baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could still love you, but obviously he doesn't have much respect for your feelings.
2007-01-04 06:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no if someone cheats on another person then they do not love you or at least as much love as it would take to make the relationship work. a relationship is built on honest and commitment, without that you have nothing. no matter how sorry someone is, even if it is really sincere, they cheated on you which means that they lost that love during that time of cheating, love would have over powered the urge to cheat and would have made him faithful (or her). so my answer is no he doesnt love you!
2007-01-04 06:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Melle Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy into the, if he loved you he wouldn't cheat crap! He could love you and cheat. The question here is does he value you? If he did, and honestly I don't think he does, he wouldn't cheat for fear of loosing someone he values so highly! If he doesn't value you and you allowe him to cheat and get away with it by saying I'm sorry, GET READY FOR ALOT MORE CHEATING!!!!!! He will do it as long as he can get away with it and it doesn't cost him anything! My advise, drop him and find someone that values you. You will be much happier! Hope this helps.
2007-01-04 06:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lonnie F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never forgive a cheater too quickly. If he is truely sorry, he will give you time to think about this and work on repairing the damage and work out why he cheated on you if he loves you so much! Just cause someone loves you, doesn't mean you have to love them back. And just because he is sorry doesn't mean you have to let him back in to do it again! Be wise, gaurd your heart, this one may totally break it if you allow it. Good luck!
2007-01-04 06:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who cheats is not considering their partners feelings. So I'd say if you're cheating, you really don't love the person you're with.
It should NOT take cheating to know you're in love. I think it's just one of those non-negotiable things. Plus think about STD's and just the total loss of trust.
SERIOUSLY, could you possibly trust someone who cheated on you again??? I sure as hell could not, and because I know my own self worth, I'd move on and find someone who really values me for who I am and what i have to offer.
2007-01-04 06:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, he doesn't love you or respect you. If he did, he would've kept his penis zipped up like Ziploc, but he didn't and just because he says he's sorry doesn't mean that he really is. He's probably just saying that to get you to take him back. Don't be a fool. The fact that you have that doubt in your mind should let you know that he doesn't love you. I hope you make the right choice with him, baby, cuz that is not love.
2007-01-04 06:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How true do you want it to be?He is a dog and you should get rid of him now.If you let him get away with it this time he will do it again and not even think twice about it.And the hurt is not any easier from the first time everytime they cheat on you it like rips your heart out.So don't put yourself through it leave.
2007-01-04 06:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, would you cheat on them?
No.
You can give him another chance, but are you aware that you will always be checking up on him - suspicious of everything he does when he's away from you? And that that behavior will just drive him away from you?
Love is based on trust more than anything. When that trust is gone, so is the relationship.
It's up to you.
2007-01-04 06:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a different answer for you if you were married, but since you are not and he has cheated on you, please do yourself a favor and break off the relationship NOW! I don't care if he gets on his knees and squirms around like some begging worm. Drop him NOW! Do yourself another favor and don't hate him either. Forgive him, but break it off. Move on and let life happen. Good luck.
2007-01-04 06:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my boyfriend cheated on me and I forgave him, but now I am in the situation where I just don't trust him, and I cry and worry all the time that he is going to do it again...so is it really worth it? Probably not. get out while you can because garanteed, just like ym b/f is gonna do, he will cheat on you again.
2007-01-04 06:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it's an issue of whether he loves you...it's an issue of whether he RESPECTS you, which he obviously does not. He did a terrible thing that hurt you, and this shows he has a complete lack of respect for your feelings. He may "love" you in his own way, but it's not true love. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't have allowed himself to betray you this way.
2007-01-04 06:35:42 · answer #11 · answered by Heather C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋