Please help me. Im feeling suicidal?

Question

My ex said he doesnt love me about 4 months ago. im lonely and wish someone would love me. I cry sore at night with so much pain in my heart. I dont wana live anymore

im female..............

Answer 1

This isn't the place to ask for help, seek some help from friends and family close by and professional help too.

Answer 2

I'll offer whatever help I can on here, as will others, I'm sure, but you MUST speak with your doctor, a counselor, a clergy member, SOMEONE who does this regularly and can actually help you. Since suicidal people are not known for being all that reasonable, asking for advice is not always helpful. Seriously, contact someone. Your life is worth living. With some work, you could live not only longer, but happier.

That's my main advice. Otherwise -

First of all, an ex not loving you is NOT a good enough reason to end your life. If it were, Elizabeth Taylor would have been dead hundreds of times over. It's certainly a difficult and a sad time, and it can be lonely, but why end your life over some creep who didn't know what a great chick he had when he had her?

At this point, I can't offer you much except to say that I've been there, I'm saying a prayer for you, and I hope you'll take to heart my suggestion to speak to a doctor or counselor -- SOON. If you're like me, after you get through this, you'll see life the way you're supposed to see it, no longer believing the lie that no one loves you. The vast majority of the population of the world has someone who cares about them, even if they don't know it.

Answer 3

This is a very touchy subject. I'm very sorry you are feeling this way. I've been there though. Let me start by saying though that you are better than this. Now I know I don't personally know you but you have to tell yourself that you are. Suicide is NEVER the answer. I know everything may seem hopeless right now but I am a very firm believer that everything happens for a reason. I know how easy it is though to forget that when you are feeling depressed and lonely. All I can really say here is that you need to just pick yourself up and keep repeating it. Show him what he lost and don't let him have it back if he comes running when he realizes how great you really are. I've been through a divorce recently from a man I was with for 13 years. I've also had two miscarriage which were even harder to get through than the divorce. I know your pain! Pick yourself up though and go on living. It's really hard at first but I promise....things do get better if you pursue them with the right attitude! I hope I've helped in some way! I hate to hear that anyone is thinking about suicide.

Answer 4

Listen it's not the end of the world. It's normal to feel lonely, but don't base your life on some guy who didn't love you. He's not the only guy out there - for one. He can't help that he doesn't love you - it isn't because you are unloveable, he just wasn't right for you. You may not realize that now, but you will eventually. No need to end your life over something like that! There's so much to live for.
Try giving your time at a soup kitchen or something like that. Join a club, get a hobby. Do something rather than feeling sorry for yourself and moping. I know what it's like to feel lonely and depressed, and the worst thing you can do is sit around and think about it. Get some fresh air, Hun!
My father committed suicide when I was 11 and it really hurt me and his parents. Think of all the people who will miss you. It won't hurt the guy as much as it'll hurt you. Give it time the heart isn't the easiest thing to mend.

Answer 5

Quite obviously there are alot of people who have responded because they care about you and have never even met you. This must mean that there's still some good left in humanity, and it would be terrible to let one bad apple get the better of you. I've heard it all before, too, and the best advice I can give you is to give it some more time. We cannot stop the progression of time, and it suits us well in these situations, dragging us along with it until things get better. :-) hang in there, we're all in this together. You'll find that, as much as it sucks, you may someday be in a situation where you have lost feelings for another person and break their heart and not be able to understand why. Try to see it from the offender's perspective- you wouldn't want to be stuck in a relationship that just doesn't suit you, no matter how strongly the other person feels.

Answer 6

No one is worth all that. Try and stop dwelling on the past. I'm sure he's not suicidal. Do you think killing yourself will make him feel guilty or what? You need to get a grip and a positive attitude. The positive attitude will help more than you'll know. Now, go out there and find something worth while to do, liking volunteering at a hospital or something where you feel needed and helpful. I would recommend you go see a doctor though. Things will get better. Sometimes you have to help yourself a little, too. There are way worse things than being dumped, believe me.

Answer 7

stop for a second and think about wut ur doing. Is the guy really worth losing a great future over? right now u may think so but 10 years doen the road when u hold ur first child in ur arms, will u feel the same? Is this all worth finnding out wut happens when u die? I've been where u are. Life is like a game show sometimes u get a big boat, and sometimes u only get crummy car wax. all u can do is spin the wheel and hope for a better prize. And u can't say someone doesn't love u cuz everyone has someone who loves them u just have to give them a chance

Answer 8

I think that the problem is much deeper than your lost relationship. Please seek help as soon as possible from a doctor or therapist. This is a tough question because it is so complex and I am not qualified to give any advised besides for you to get help from a qualified professional. If you do not have medical insurance go anyways. You could even go to the emergency center. A medical bill would be better than the alternative. They can help you. You might have some sort of imbalance that a simple medication might fix. It sounds like you might have a problem with depression. Life can get better and please don't give up. It does get better and pain does go away over time if you are giving the proper tools to deal with it.

Answer 9

you can't keep living like you're worthless. Get a dog, take it for a walk,pet it, take care of it. it will give you unconditional love in return. I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there, it's just a matter of finding that person. You need to keep trying. Moping isn't going to get you anywhere. Suicide is the easy way out and you're going to go to hell if you do it. Life can get better if you make it that way. Go out with your friends. Live for the moment, laugh and live. Don't let some things get you down. You can pull through. But look at everything you could miss by committing suicide. Plz, try and come around

Answer 10

I've been where you are right now. With time you will realize that an ex isn't a good reason to feel suicidal. While you probably can't imagine it right now, things will get better, and somebody else will come along.
It happened to me about 15 years ago, and when I think about that person I feel foolish for having wanted to end my life because that person left me.
Try to keep yourself occupied with hobbies, outings, anything that will distract you. Time will pass, and so will the pain.
EDIT: For BOB and The D.A.- and anyone else who doesn't know what humanity and compassion mean. If you can't help and don't have anything nice to say...Go to next question.

Answer 11

Hi,
i have felt like this b4 and it is one of the worst feelings in your life. but i moved on with my life i got a good job ad a new set of mates. You have to do a list of all the positive things in your life like family friends job etc. Nothing or no one is worth ending your life over. Think of all the people you will leave behind. In time u will feel 100% better is only been 4 months so it is still quite raw to think about what has happened.

But u will be fine get a new hobby or do something u enjoy to take u mind of things like if u spent time with certain nites of the week fill that time with doing something completely new and in time u will so get passed it