i broke up with my girl - thing is it was harsh and my decison - i let her go - i still feel down - i dunno wat to do..
im reorganising my life
adapting to gym routines and diet routines (im a fitness buff)
being more religious/spiritual
concentrating more on my studies
thing is im in a dillemma - i never had problmes with a chik - but shud i hook up with a girl or shud i just do a hooker - cos i got exams in a couple of months - or should i just abstain - all three are gna have a major effect on my life -or shud i just get sum casual relationships with girls (kinda hard where i live but still)
i need sum brilliant advice please - and any suggestions
2007-01-04 06:29:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, so what I gather, and the main question you are asking is about sexual release, right?
Hook-up or a hooker? You're a fitness buff, which means you respect and have a desire to maintain and keep your body in the best shape possible. Why would you want to risk disease? Both the hooker AND the one-night-stand girl are going to be promiscuous. Ewww....
I can't say I have brilliant advice, but masturbation and abstinence seem to be the best route for you. If you aren't looking for any emotional attachment and are reorganizing your life, then lay off the one on one sex for a while. Sounds like you feel a need to get your head straight before anything else. Besides, when you go the "M" route, you will never EVER wake up and ask yourself "What have I done?"
Take care, be safe, and good luck! :)
2007-01-04 06:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need focus in your life and maybe she was needy and distracting. Don't "do" a hooker, God knows what you will catch and I think it diminishes your soul when you do crap like that. Keep it light, it doesn't have to be intense love affair. It is possible to have something casual and light. Be upfront with a woman, let her know what you are all about. Your goals and dreams and if she's worth it, she will understand and stick by you.
Get your priorities in order, you need to be right with yourself before you can get right with others. Pursue your dreams but don't lose sight on reality.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 06:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like you are just trying set your priorities. Which is totally cool. and leaving her doesnt solve anything. apparently you are trying to find yourself. and i dont think theres any better way to do that then on your own. Honestly you dont have to have someone to suffice you. Granted life might not be exciting but i think the best thing for you to do is just take a break for a while. Just have a good time for a while. Your going to find yourself soon
2007-01-04 06:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should abstain until you can get over this female. Concentrate on the rest of your life for awhile. Do you really need to jump into another relationship so quick?
2007-01-04 06:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u feel this bad chances are u stil have feelings for her, so try to get her back and if thats not possible then go find another girl but not just becasue ur sad but because u like them. DO NOT GET A HOOKER!
2007-01-04 06:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest from the start of any relationship. If you needed time for yourself, you should have been straight forward and told her about your delima.Maybe it's not to late to reverse the situation and repair the damage done. Good luck-you may need it.
2007-01-04 06:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by viper_64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd worry bout my exams first... and ask yourself, are you having a dillemma over your EX , or not having a girl. seems to me you're trying hard to get your values straighh n all, but hooking up short term wont ease away any pain, or help you @ skoo.
2007-01-04 06:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hooker (no back talk) the cost is the same after you factor in dinner and a movie for your new chick
good luck on yoru exams
2007-01-04 06:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back with your girl and get the hooker and practice being more spiritual.
2007-01-04 06:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by TULSA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in that time of your life where you need a thrasher........ dont worry about chicks for a few months until you get your head around things, if in need pay for a thrasher to relax go for it. its not criminal to worry about your own interests for a little part of your life!!!!!!!!! goodluck and enjoy
2007-01-04 06:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by mickves t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋