why today if do not have sex with the guys in 3 days or less they never call you back?Some girls have more to offer than just sex.If they no get to know me,i will be single forever.I will not play this game,no sex until i say so.I give up on dating,the guys are looking for sex only.Why they do not go to the right place,you know....
2007-01-04 06:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by maridoscar45 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These days, it's sad to say that a lot of guys are just looking for sex, and there's a lot of girls out there who are willing to give it to them. So if that's all they're looking for, and you're not putting out they know there's someone else out there who will. Sucks huh?
2007-01-04 06:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not All Guys Are Like That Even Though In Todays Society It Seems Neccasry To Have Sex. Be Patient. Show Them Thats They Cant Ask ask ask and not give give give.
2007-01-04 06:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by ATMAFIA09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, because the girls who have sex on the first date complain that they never get a second date & at least, you get three!
All kidding aside...stick to your guns.
I married a fellow whom I dated for 9 months before consumation. I was 35(almost 36) when we got married, after a brief engagement. He respected my choice & took pride in the fact that I valued myself, him & my relationship with him enough to say 'No' despite his finest efforts.
He says he learned the true meaning off 'determination' 'perseverance' and 'commitment' from our relationship.
It takes a LOT more than sex, to make a relationship work & you seem to know this already. Good for you. When you do find the right guy, who values you, he & you will reap the benefits of your own inner-wisdom, despite today's culture.
2007-01-04 06:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for respecting yourself as too not giving in to the pigs out there. I am with you. I wish I had the answer because I still need to know this myself. I feel if you did give in to these guys they wouldn't of called you after you had sex with them or if they do call you back it would just be for more sex when they want it because you gave it up to them so easy. There are respectful guys out there however they are hard to find.
2007-01-04 06:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times have changed alot since I was dating. From experience, you are on the right track. Most of the guys want sex to prove something, or show off for thier buddies. If you firmly believe in waiting, then hats off to you. If you wait, the right one will notice, and you will be happier with your decision. Remember, the good ones are sitting back watching to see what you decide to do with the other guys.
2007-01-04 06:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!
When you have sex these days you are doing something more courageous than you know with the rate of sexually transmitted diseases at epidemic proportions.
Any guy who leaves you after three dates without having sex wasn't asking you out because he was looking for a relationship anyway. He was looking for something other than his hand that's all.
If a man truly cares about you and loves you he will respect you and wait. They know the rules just the same as women do.
The right one for you will come along. And I say bravo to you for waiting.
2007-01-04 06:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are looking for sex only. Sure most dumb guys who haven't fully matured yet. I say, don't give up your morals! If they only want you for sex what's the point, just move on. My husband and I didn't have sex right off the bat after dating - because he saw me as a person not a sex object. I'm sure there's a guy out there for you who will want to talk to you - not just look down your shirt.
2007-01-04 06:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop looking. Guys can spot desperation from a mile away. And that is the time when they will tell you they're here to stay because they sense that is what you want to hear. You are setting yourself up to be used. Relax and exercise some patience. Let Mr. Right find you.
2007-01-04 06:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very sensible - if you give them sex they will probably not call anyway coz they will have gotten what they wanted. You will not be single forever just look for guys in a different place they are not all the same
2007-01-04 06:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this is a sexually based society in which everything is about sex. Don't fret, you will find someone who isn't focused on sex and just you the person!
2007-01-04 06:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by chokolaite_cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋