2007-01-04 06:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by susieqissweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is a matter of leaving things to just happen. If you plan everything out and have a script written, it's not really love. Close your eyes, get lost and let it happen on its own. It will.
2007-01-04 06:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time. What happens is you get weird when you hold it in, and maybe if he knew, he'd either be straight with you that this is, or is not what he wants.
2 short stories of why NOT to delay:
A good guy I dated held it in. I really liked him and I thought he just wanted to keep it casual. That is what he said over and over. So I went out with someone else I wanted to date, the night before he told me he loved me (we had been seeing each other for 9 months and he kept denying something was up when I asked). This really hurt him and then he did not trust me.
I held it in with someone else. He was falling in love with me too, but I almost broke up thinking he did not feel the same way and I was scared of getting my heart broken. I finally told him, rather than break up - but I told him what I was thinking and feeling about bailing. He told me Thank God you didn't. We have been together 14 months now and going strong.
2007-01-04 06:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you absolutely think that he is the one for you and that a relationship can be formed, then tell him now and get the reaction over with. Hopefully he feels the same and the two of you can go on from there. Good luck!
2007-01-04 06:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by kougajinaroku 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you start falling in love with him..and when you feel comfortable talking about it to him
don't just hold out b/c you're afraid. that will get you nowhere. better be clean and honest up front.
2007-01-04 06:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you get some type of feeling back from him. Let it happen naturally. If you tell him, he may feel pressure to say it back. Try and get some idea of how he feels, and then you can bring it up.
2007-01-04 06:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Moesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been together and his personality..... You never want to let a guy know this too soon as it may send him running depending on the guy!
2007-01-04 06:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by marienb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as it's true. Better to try and lose, than never to try and always wonder what might have happened.
2007-01-04 06:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now! Just say it like it is. Life is short..
2007-01-04 06:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥bambii_xoxo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now :-) Don't keep true love a secret.
2007-01-04 06:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go Insane.
2007-01-04 06:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋