see i have dated this guy before. i dated him last year and then we broke up and then we hooked up again this year.....and during the relationship i got to thinking and realiized i wasnt happy i was always sad and my best friend told me she noticed i wasnt my self well i got to thinking more and i came up to a decision that i cant be with him anymore....so i decided to let him know what was going on, and the reason y i talked to him about it was wen he broke up with me last year he didnt tell me y he broke up with me so i didnt want to be a hypocrite! and then after talked to him i told him that i just want to be friends, but i feel bad that i did that now!!! did do the right thing?? and was that a good reason to break up with him for????
2007-01-04 06:16:13 · 21 answers · asked by soccerisindividual 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
true love cant help but show itself...trust your instincts
2007-01-04 06:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was great that you were honest and upfront with him and didn't lead him on. I know it probably hurt him but you have to look out for #1 because no one else will. He will eventually get over you and no you are not a hypocrite. You wanted to see if it would work and it didn't so you need to go on. Life is hard enough without having your significant other bringing you down. Good luck you will find Mr. Right out there somewhere in this wonderful world. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. I found my Mr. Right when I was 17 and I was just lucky. But I do believe in destiny and yes I am a romantic too. Have fun in your life and find someone you can laugh with, play with and be serious with. Good Luck!!
2007-01-04 14:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done the right thing. When you have anything, whether it makes you happy or sad, you will miss it when it is gone. So therfore in when a relationship is lost you will more times than not miss the other person.
In your case, if you were not happy with the other person it was best to get out of the relationship and move on. There is no point being with someone if they make you unhappy.
2007-01-04 14:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Master O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no being happy seems like a perfectly good reason to reason to break up with somebody. Dont mistake the feelings of guilt your feeling right now with feeling for him. Let him go. He'll find someone else and so will you and ye will both be happy. Dont worry about it anymore
2007-01-04 14:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons to be with people (friends, family, boyfriends..) is because we like them and feel good when we're around them. I think you did the right thing. Your regret is normal but pretty soon you'll be over it. Why should we be stuck in an unhappy relationship when there is soo much better? It's not good for either of you. Hope I helped. xOXo
2007-01-04 14:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥bambii_xoxo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If you were truly unhappy then it was best. I have broke up with the love of my life for a few reasons. That relationship, altho the most loving I have ever had. Made me jealous and argumentative. so it was necessary to spread the wings.
2007-01-04 14:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be unfair to the guy to stay in a relationship where you're not happy. You'd eventually start taking it out on him, and at least this way, that's been avoided. You did the right thing.
2007-01-04 14:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by emily_brown18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you totally did the wrong thing--we all believe you should stay in a relationship where you are unhappy. That was a stupid question and if you are serious in asking it then you have a long life of being used ahead of you.
2007-01-04 14:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you got game you totally know how to be in control and you shouldn't feel guilty because if he agreed then you played ur cards right. And besides I am sure it was for the best.
2007-01-04 14:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lil_Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't happy and you don't feel like you should be with that person, then you did the right thing. It is far worse to stay with someone and let them think everything is ok when its not.
2007-01-04 14:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it was. if you are not happy in a relationship then it is probably best to end it. i thinnk that that was a good reason, and of course you would feel guilty about it now, but if he asks you out again, make sure youre happy.
2007-01-04 14:21:27 · answer #11 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋