should i be offended?

Question

one of my friends told me the guy ive been datin told her i g$ve he@d n im awsome @ it. the thing is they're best friends. she told me she know's every time we've done w/e. should i be mad @ him n wat does this mean if he's talkin about it. does he really think im good @ it or is he just being a typical guy?

Answer 1

I'm not surprised that he told his best friend. Its common for males and females to share details of the relationship with those "close" to them. The problem is this is not always OK with the other person in the relationship. Is it OK with you? If so then no need to be offended. If not then you should tell your boyfriend that you would like to keep intimate details of your relationship between the two of you. Until you tell him this he will most likely continue to tell his best friend. Communication is the key in most relationship problems. If he continues after you voice your opinion then you would have reason to be offended

Answer 2

um, you missed the entire point.....First off if he told it then obviously you are good at what you do but the point that you missed is the fact that he would go out and actually tell someone about whats going on between the sheets.....Those things are private, why would you not be upset over the idea that he is telling your business???? Especially something like that, that would make other people want to see just how good you are!!!!

Answer 3

It means that pretty soon everyone will know. He's telling more than this one person. All the guys are going to want you for that.

Answer 4

It all depend on your feeling...if you feel that your sex life should remain secret with only your bf, then you should tell him that...

If you don't care if he express/brags about his gf ability...then you should not be offended...

Answer 5

Gentleman do not "kiss and tell"....