what should i do?

Question

these days am not really enjoying sex as i used to before.i realy dont know whats the problem.my wife.or am a bit tired.or can i get another girl.

Answer 1

The fact that you are asking if you can get another girl says a lot about you. You are a jerk. That might be your problem right there.

That dumb remark at the end of your question aside, the best thing you can do is go see a doctor. There may be a medical reason you are not enjoying sex like you used to. Perhaps you have impotence problems or depression; or worse. If you turn out to be healthy, then you need to talk to your wife about it. You obviously are not communicating well with her, and THAT is probably your real problem. Tell her what you want out of sex. Listen to what SHE wants. Compromise. Work together. If necessary, go get some marriage counseling. If you decide to "get another girl," you can kiss your marriage and probably half your stuff good-bye.