ok .. so if there was a girl that you liked since the first day you met, you thought she was cool, different, beautiful... you two had went on dates together ,hung out and had great times. ... but now unfortuately she has moved back to her moms house like 3 ,4 states away from you...... would you hold on to what you felt for her .. would you forget about her .... what would you do ?? ( by the way.... you and the girl u like are 19 yrs old)
2007-01-04 06:04:25 · 11 answers · asked by lola b. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also... yes it is a possibility that you can move over to where she lives.. actually you would be living about 3 miles from her because coincidently you have family that lives very close to her and they have been wantin you to come down there with the promise of bein able to get u a better job
2007-01-04 06:10:07 · update #1
Try and stay with her. If you like her that much, distance is an inconvenience but can be overcome. Find a job and work as much as you can so you can afford to travel to see her as frequently as you can.
2007-01-04 06:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try yes, but I would sadly probably have my heart broken as well. I have heard that long distance relationships don't work out. I've never tried any myself, but I have two friends who attempted one and that fell apart. And that's a relationship where both peple were still in the same state!
Another point too is these "two people" you speak of are still young. I know they probably think they aren't, but most of the people I know went through a LOT of growing up in their early twenties! I myself definently did! These two people may change their way of living, thier beliefs, etc. and become a completely different person than the other fell in love with in the first place. Add that onto the distance and it will more than likely fall apart.
It would be a hard road yes, but possible to trod if both parties were compeltely dedicated and remained that way.
2007-01-04 14:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by martheev98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living on the West Coast I would say let her go. For instance the closest state border from the part of Cali I live in is minimum 6 hours away. If your on the East Coast, 3-4 states away may not be that bad in terms of distance and time.
One other issue, being 19 you two can probrably find someone else if the distance thing does not workout.
2007-01-04 14:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to hold on to it and make things work.....I dont think you can just forget everything like cold pizza unless you really werent into the girl to begin with......Since she is 3 states away, this relationship will take a lot of patience but it can be done.....and being that you two are only 19, hmmmmm....Trust me, you two will be tested, and tested a lot
2007-01-04 14:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are writing my life when i was that age. i would very much keep in touch, you never know what the future might bring. i work with a lady that got married when she was young and 17 years later she got a divorce and found that her high school sweet heart was also divorced they hooked up and our the happiest people i know. do not short change yourself by being alone waiting for the other person because most likely they could be doing the same. i would make myself sick wondering what that person was doing when i wasn't there. nobody needs to go through all that suffering.
2007-01-04 14:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by willieet70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that .so i would say let it go.they are both to young for that type of commitment.it would only hinder the couple from seeking out other aspect of their lives because they would only be concern about trying to be close to each other taking focus off of other things that life has to offer.when i went through it i passed up many opportunities to travel .as it turn out i am not even with her and did not get the chance to travel at that level again.it is not as if they truly love each other and if they do the separation wont hurt.
2007-01-04 14:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by zachary b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will try to hold on...long distance relationship is very tough...
Talk with the girl and see if you can both transfer to same college...
2007-01-04 14:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that young age, depending how much time was invested probably not unless you were both inseperable.
2007-01-04 14:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahem....you are too young to even be considering a long term relationship like marriage for petes sake...is there some reason you cant be friends and take it slow?
2007-01-04 14:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt forget about her, but unless you pack up and move where she is i doubt anything serious will become of you 2
2007-01-04 14:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by olzap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋