A high School Girl
2007-01-04 06:02:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldnt blame yourself unless you actually had a hand in his death....Meaning that you did something to cause him to die!!!!
2007-01-04 06:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T REALLY KNOW Y U BLAME URSELF UNLESS U HAD SOMETHING 2 DO WITH HIS DEATH IF NOT IT IS NOT UR FAULT. IF IT WAS HIS TIME THEN HE HAD 2 GO WITH GOD ESPECIALLY IF HE WAS SUFFERING HERE ON EARTH. RIGHT NOW HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE. MY DAD DIED AND I FELT REALLY SAD BECAUSE I WAS UPSET AT HIM AND WE WERE NOT TALKING WHEN HE DIED AND I FELT SO HORRIBLE THAT I STILL THINK ABOUT IT BUT I DON'T BLAME MYSELF BECAUSE I KNOW HE IS IN PEACE NOW AND NOT SUFFERING. U CAN'T BLAME URSELF FOR WHAT HAS HAPPENED BECAUSE WHEN UR TIME COMES THERE IS NOTHING ANYBODY CAN DO ABOUT IT. I AM SORRY 4 UR LOSS BUT I ALSO HOPE THAT I DON'T SOUND CRUEL.
2007-01-04 14:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite normal. In our grief we often go through several stages of acceptance. One of them can be to blame ourselves for the inevitable. Unless you pulled the trigger, put the poison in his drink or push him down the stairs you have nothing to blame yourself for. You will get over it! Just try not to get too carried away with this notion. Think about the chain of events that led to his death and you will clearly see that you hav nothing to do with it! Chin up, baby!
2007-01-04 14:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask urself why u think its ur fault, if u realize u cant come up with why then you'll probably stop blaming urself for his death. im sure no one wanted it to happen, it's no one's fault. what do u think your uncle would be feeling now if he knows that ur blaming urself for no reason? if u still can't feel better about his death, then go see a therapist.
2007-01-04 14:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not ur fault. Just think of the time u spent together and when u get to heaven u will get to spend more time with him. It is not ur fault, It was just his time 2 go. He is in a better place now.
God Bless u.
2007-01-04 14:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to keep in mind that we did not come here to stay. We come for a period of time and then we have to leave. It is the natural order of things.
2007-01-04 14:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont blame ur self
people pass away all the time
2007-01-04 14:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lame yourself. Everything has its reason...
You should find relative and talk about your feeling...
If you are religious, talk to your priest about death and the afterlife...
2007-01-04 14:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat alot and start smoking... or go to church and cry or take up shooting rabbits or talk on the 360
2007-01-04 14:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Silly Jaro 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what did you do?
just move on anyway...you can't change anything. Just make sure it doesnt' happen again.
2007-01-04 14:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋