I'm so sick of the cockblocking friends that are always either jelouse cuz they're not the ones getting the attention or they're just bitter...nine times outta ten girls are in groups...Ladies...feedback! What would make you not listen to your friends and come have a drink with a hot guy? Guys...what has worked for you???
2007-01-04 05:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by Dave B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what to say specifically, i have no idea but my friends and i think saying something witty or clever will most likely get a woman's attention. try not to be intimidated by her friends, many women are kind of floored/flattered when a guy has the confidence to walk right up to her, look into her eyes and say something funny or witty----just not creepy and desperate. whatever you do though, and i think all (real) ladies will agree, don't follow her to the bathroom. we think that's creepy.
good luck to you and have fun out there...
2007-01-04 05:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a girl you are interested in and she happens to be in a group of friends then make eye contact with her, just her. Ignore the other girls (If they are real friends they wont be bitter) just laugh them off. Make a joke or make an engaging comment that will keep her attention then ask that girl if she wants a drink, to dance or go for a walk. That is what usually works for me! Good luck!
2007-01-04 14:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by krazyc122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact a lot... don't get all macho and walk over to her and her friends. Women go out together to protect each other from lecherous, creepy guys. I am sure you don't realize this but women have to put up with a lot of crap when going out. It is a turn off when men act presumptuous and cocky. We are not hunks of me just waiting ot be devoured.
Subtle flirting it the key... make sure that she notices you noticing her and if she is flirting back (eye contact, smiling, playing with her hair a lot) send her a drink. Let her be the one to come to you.
Women can smell a "hook up" from a mile away and I can tell you that most of us are not interested in being used just because you are horny. Just don't act like a jerk.
2007-01-04 14:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure she is interested in you, gently take her by the hand or arm, and politely ask permission to pose a private question to her. Don't wait for a response, just gently lead her away, but not too far away so that she is out of sight of her friends, and then just ask her whatever.... I am sure you can think of something.
2007-01-04 13:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I have not found it possible without a group. ie: wingman approach
2007-01-04 13:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by jz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk over to her with your penis hanging out of your pants and say "hi, I'm Dave, notice I'm a little different from other guys"...I promise, the other girls will leave.
2007-01-04 13:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋