my bf who is 18 and im the same age as him,well he has A level exams next week and i know they are very hard but i only get to see him once a week and i realy miss him,thing is that he wonts to do revsion which i understand but if i dont see him this saturday i wont be able to see him for 3 weeks and i miss him so much already and 3 weeks with out seeing him ill go mad cause ill just be depressed like i always am when i dont see him.
2007-01-04 05:49:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
selfish are we?
2007-01-04 05:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he needs to study for his exams so he can get a good grade. I know that if you see him and he gets a bad grade on his exam becaus ehe was with you and couldnt study, then you would feel really bad then wont you? you will see him in 3 weeks. Call him every day if you can. 3 weeks isnt that long. There's time when I don't see my bf for a month and yeah i miss him, but I always end up seeing him and when I do we spend as much time together as we can. IT WILL WORK!!! trust me. just think about him often. And if you really start to miss him y doint u go to his house and study with him. no extra cirricular activity though. hehe
2007-01-04 13:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylee T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what I would do? I would go and do something yourself and that would take your mind off it plus he might take notice if you start to get a life and interests of your own outside of your relationship.
Why not spend some Christmas money on a month's pass to the local gym and go each night or as often as you wish, not only will that take your mind off missing him, but it will relax you and you will look utterly gorgeous for the next time you see him. Some of the classes are really good fun and you might find one that you start to attend regularly in the future.
I am a teacher and I would advise that your boyfriend should allow himself one night a week off from revision to stop him suffering from burnout.
2007-01-04 13:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have constant coursework and test for engineering but i am at my girlfriends 4-5 days a week. there is always time to see each other even if it is only for an hour or so a day. a full night of revision doesnt do any good as your mind begins to wander and the info stops going in. if you catch what i mean
2007-01-04 13:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by McShootyFace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously wants to do well in these exams and you should just let him get on with it. I'm sure he is missing you too, but sometimes and rightly so in my opinion other things have to take priority it's just the way of the world and you need to learn to accept it. sorry if i sound harsh
2007-01-04 14:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about 1 or 2 men?
2007-01-04 13:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mama R 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have a touch of the obsessives about you. Carry on like this and you'll drive him away. Just chill a little. What's three weeks when you've years ahead together (possibly)?
2007-01-04 13:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's only going to get one go at the exams so leave him alone & don't nag
do you know my husband is a soldier & I see him when the MOD says I can (at the moment that's 6 months)
GROW UP
2007-01-04 13:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do some studying yourself.Give some attention to English.Then we might understand what you are talking about.
2007-01-04 14:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by pigtailkid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break the bad news to you but his education and future are more important than you. As it should be. That's life. Quit being so selfish!
2007-01-04 13:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
unfortubatly your just going to give him his space to revise , just think after the exams he will have all the time in the world to amke it up to you :D .
After all absence makes the heart grow fonder :D
2007-01-04 13:51:38 · answer #11 · answered by lauren a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋