My mom died a few weeks after i was born. My dad got married to this evil woman. She has 3 kids. 2 daughters and 1 son. Ever since I was 4,I have been getting abused...hit, yelled at, called names, kicked out of the house, etc... My dad is in the army and is always away and when hes home he is either with my stepmom or his friends. I felt like cinderella cuz all my step siblings got what they wantedand wwerent abused and I didng get much and was abused everyday. Even my step siblings hated me and laughed at me and spit on me. When I was 10, I noticed my steep brother touching me in places that i wasnt comfortable with him touching. He told my dad and my dad soon started touching me and making me touch him. When I turned 11, they started molesting me and making me pull down my pants so they could **** me. If I refused or cried or said no, they would punch me and beat me up until I let them. My step sister even made me kiss her and touch her and she would touch me. Im 14 now. HELP!!!!
2007-01-04 05:46:02 · 23 answers · asked by Kaylee T. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is true...i never told anyone this befroe so its really akward for me and to tell someone like the cops...i dont know if I can. Its really weird to even say it here
2007-01-04 06:21:04 · update #1
There are plenty of resources to help you. Yahoo questions is not one of them. You will have to be brave, but it's time to see the school counselor and tell your story. It won't be easy but it is something that you have to do without fail.
If you don't, you will survive. You will grow older and you will move away. Here's the catch. My wife was molested as a child. She never did what I am telling you to do. It almost cost us our relationship because of emotions that were related to her past. I am her second husband and I was almost an ex... Now she is in counseling...at 48 years old.
Deal now...not later, not tomorrow, not after the weekend. Right now. I shouldn't even see another question or answer from you because you she be in your counselors office or on the phone with the local child services office. Do it now.
2007-01-04 05:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You really should call the police. Find an adult who you can confide in to help you through it. Maybe a counsler at school? A parent of a close friend. This isn't a joke and can have a serious effects on the rest of your life. Those people need to be locked up and you need to see a therapist. These actions will effect you for the rest of your life if you don't start putting a stop to them and start dealing with the emotions.
2007-01-04 05:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by justjen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is all true I am sorry for you. You should go to a school councilor and they can help you get out of this situation. Are you still in touch with your mom's family? Maybe with the help of a school councilor you can live with one of them and make sure that the people that have been abusing you end up behind bars where they belong so they won't do this to anyone else.
You will need a lot of therapy to help you heal from this but I urge you to reach out for help. You don't have to live like this.
2007-01-04 05:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is go to the police, tell them what is happening to you, and that you need them to help you because you can't live like this any longer. Don't be afraid to go to them, I know that sometimes we're afraid of officers, but just remember that they're there to protect us.
What they will probably do is to make you do a phone call with them and have them accept what they have been doing to you, that way they can have it on tape and arrest them, then you will be put in a place where you can be protect it, and most important of all you will be help so that you can heal and move on. Please don't be afraid to do this, is for your own good; just think of how your life is right now, and they need to be punish for what they're doing. I hope you follow my advise and please if you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask me.
I will keep you in my prayers and God and His Angels protect you!
; o )
2007-01-04 06:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell your story or find a teacher at school with whom you feel comfortable. There are good families who don't hurt their children out there. Your family needs some counseling. This behavior is not okay. It is not your fault. You are in a bad situation. Life will get better if you get away from them.
2007-01-04 06:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO DO NOT CALL THE POLICE 1ST call your local social service department 1st get a case worker to met you somewhere alone they will get you out of there and then they will call the police if you call the police 1st they have to investigate and sometimes dont handle those situations like they should be. The case workers at socail servies are trained to help you in this instance and they are very very understanding and help you talk about this. I know that you are scared but these ppl are licensed and are able to help you get help right NOW!!!!
2007-01-04 08:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really wish i could help you i would like to, if i could i would just take you away honestly i think thats too much for a child to go through however keep praying for the day when this will be over and seek help from from a councilor at school or something because honey YOU NEED HELP and fast. You live with the devil and his family you need to get out. PLease seek for help i'm worried about you.
i love you baby and GOD loves you. Don't give up hope and please don't consider suicide. wish i could do more. Good luck.
2007-01-04 05:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you are saying is true, go immediately to his unit commander or the Base Provost Marshall. If not that speak with your student counselor. Next thing you can do is go to the Police. Don't allow this situation to go on any longer......In fact ,I think I would start with local Police first. If you are uneasy about going to the Police alone ask a teacher for help..The student counselor should be able to help......DO IT NOW.!!!!!!
2007-01-04 05:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by buzzwaltz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah hunny this is serious either go to your school counselor and tell her whats going on (cuz shell get help for you right away!!!) or go to the police and tell them the story and tell them your afraid to go home and they will keep you there with them and find a family for you that loves and cares for you. Or if you have any friends go over ther house and tell there parents and they will most likely allow you to stay with them hunny i wish you luck and dont worry god is with you
2007-01-04 05:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by C I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how weird it is to open up to people about something like this and if you cant tell the police then you need to find an adult that you trust and can talk to. Please don't wait any longer you need to do it now. I hope that you know that you have done nothing wrong and this isn't your fault.
Peace and strength to you
2007-01-04 06:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋