Sick of being lonely?

Question

Iv'e Been with my man for 17yrs. And the last7yrs. have been hell, i'm lucky if we kiss let lone anything else, Him want's me once every 2 to 3 month's and that's it. He really love's to look at porn model's, I found some on the computer,he said he didn't know nothing about it, he blamed my son and his friend's, But i know it was him,cause he was looking at movies and it was the same company, he said he clicked on it ,but it was one of the video's he was looking at, I told him it couldn't be because it was on porn model's and he seached 6 page's than clicked on only to one that looked more beautiful than i could ever look, It hurt's so bad, Please help me decide what to do. because i don't want to be lonely anymore, i miss at least the hugging,But same way every 2 to 3 month's, by the way we've been living together for 12yrs' .I found out about the porn about 7yrs ago but he stopped looking at it ,maybe once and a while,but now he's on the computer looking. i'm sick of it. im not fat.

Answer 1

It sounds like he no longer has interest in you. Not your fault, just happens. If he is willing to discuss the lack of affection/attention that is happening, talk to him. If he is not, then it might be time for you to make the decision to move on. It's better to be alone and lonely than with someone and still lonely.. it does hurt more.

Answer 2

That sucks . . . .sounds like you need to buy some new lingerie and try to spice things up. If that doesn't work then maybe you should bring some sexy toys into the bedroom. If all that fails . . cheat on him. Good Luck, Randy

Answer 3

You might need to try some new things to get his attention.

Answer 4

he sounds like a bum to me. hang in there

Answer 5

move on