Black guys have failed women of color i am hispanic and i normally date black guys. but honestly im over the self concious player who surrounds himself with girls just to cover insecurites up. White guys will look at me and i'll smile back but they dont come up to me. I dont know why i think maye its the whole ghetto stigma women of color have. Im actully intelligent and fun and not drama. how do i show them its okay to come up and talk?
2007-01-04 05:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by fireflykissess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow how you can be so prejudice and hypocritical at the same time is beyond me.
You stigmatize all black men into ghetto thugs, then complain that white men stigmatize you as a ghetto girl because you are Hispanic.
Not all black guys are ghetto thugs, a lot of us are clean cut, educated, highly respectable men. MEANWHILE we always lose girls to the ghetto thug.
However, if you want to talk to white boys, stop treating them as "white boys" and talk to them as if they were people.
2007-01-04 05:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
White guys are more accustomed to having an interested girl approach him, well some of us are anyway. So, go up and introduce yourself. Also, there is, whether deserved or not, a stero type that black men are much more likely to date white women than a black women is to date a white guy. He may think he doesn't have a chance or your all together not interested. Points to ponder. Good luck. BTW, the whole 'game' thing would get old fast. I don't know how some people can stand to put up such tough guy fronts over the course of years. It would get old.
2007-01-04 05:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do - don't put on the ghetto "attitude" it is that ghetto stigma you describe that puts white guys off. Be subtle back. Don't play really hard to get..be sweet - no "attitude" or "diva" crap OK? If all else fails, initiate a conversation to show the guy that you actually have a brain. Go to new places where you haven't been before....a lot of white guys will not date a woman they know used to date black guys (sad but true). Be prepared for encountering a different culture with white guys
2007-01-04 05:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-15 15:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from white guys......they won't like you..
2017-03-07 21:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them a wave, or a signal like "come're I won't bite you"
If all else fails, go talk to them. It's very flatering when a girl does.
2007-01-04 05:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tim H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u just go up to them ....given up on black guys geez that's harsh not all black guys are playas
2007-01-04 06:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jay-C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋