If you are physically/sexually attracted to someone, but the romantic spark/connection is missing are there ways to create this spark so the relationship could lead to falling in love?
2007-01-04 05:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't create a connection with someone, its either there or its not.
2007-01-04 05:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Sasha my dear, a connection is something that happens. If connections were made, the whole world would be in love and there would be no divorce rate. If you are physically/sexually attracted to someone off the bat, there probably wont be any romance because all you can focus on is the persons animal attraction.
If love is what you are seeking, let it find you. Trust me, the right person for you is out there and before you know it, you'll be in love. But right now? I don't think there will be a spark. But you are in luck...any one can create intimacy...we do that everyday, don't we? Just hang in there, honey....depending on your age and maturity, love will find a way to you...m'kay??? Keep your head up!
2007-01-04 05:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pea Nis Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend time talking to them listening to them, not cutting in with your own story. Patience is a key, wait for them to open up a little and share these small moments as you build trust, the intimacy will follow. Unfortunately if you have already slept with them it may be a little harder to do this.
2007-01-04 05:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by plainandsymbple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a trip together. Something fun and spontaneous. Just talk... about your dreams or funny things. Ask questions you have never asked before?? Sometimes though you have got to realize that we are attracted to people sexually and that is all. And there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-01-04 05:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come here and kiss me lets see
2007-01-04 05:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by buddy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋