I have a guy friend or was who is charming and sweet but not a very nice guy to women. He has been married four times and all have ended in divorce. He does not have a good background. Is it possible that he can change? I am not trying to change him but I get concerned how he lives his life.
2007-01-04 05:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bamma say bad men can change. Bamma say he bad man. Bamma need help. Bamma say you help him. Bamma say if he only had one more chance. Bamma say maybe he not lie anymore. Bamma say he not cheat on 3 women. Bamma say maybe he claim kid. Bamma say he need woman like Diedre. Bamma say a woman who care. Bamma say men divorce 4 times for reason. Bamma say this man neverrrrrr change. Bamma say run for life. Bamma say no get involved. Bamma say you asking to get hurt. Bamma know this for fact. Bamma otta know.
2007-01-04 05:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe people ONLY change if THEY REALLY want to and SEE that the NEED to! There are men that are "serial wedders" and I happened to be the 5th wife of one of them. My ex husband wasn't a bad man- he wasn't mean or anything. He just didn't care about anything but himself. He didn't know how to be a husband. He didn't know how to listen, or contribute, or communicate, or TRY to do things to make me happy. I was the one always putting in the effort to try and make it work. Luckily that only lasted a year and a half (although the divorce part is taking much longer then planned because he won't contribute to that either!!). Stay away from any man that you know has been married 4 times before. It is a trend. They get married (for what reason, I am not sure) then they get bored because the challenge is over for them. He is an adult and if he lives his life that way, there is nothing you can do to help.
-EA
2007-01-04 14:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a friend that was exactly the same way and he eventually ran into a girl that he wanted to change for and changed his whole life around for her without her even asking! He'll come around eventually if he wants too.
2007-01-04 13:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he'll have to get help first, b/c no women will change him. He might have a habit of treating women the way he does and i believe it's almost like an addiction. So he'll need help first, then he might change, but the ques. is, IS HE willing to change?
2007-01-04 13:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER! Run as far as you can. Women always think they can change their man. Never happen in a million years. He'll tell you, but, honey I love you. Honey I love you. Like a FOOL, you'll say yes honey I know,I love you too. Women are not real bright.
2007-01-04 13:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by mjorod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that could change this guy would be either seeing a therapist or going to church on a regular basis if he's not already.
Remember, he's not going to change b/c you want him to...he needs to change b/c HE WANTS TO DO IT FOR HIMSELF.
2007-01-04 13:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by chad_zortman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Out he needs HELP and I mean professional Yes it's possible he can change but only with help. Please Be Careful
2007-01-04 13:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt changed after four marriges, he aint never gonna change. and it is a good thing you are not gonna try and change him.....he will only mistreat you more.
2007-01-04 13:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so....usually bad people are taught from his/ her childhood background...and you can never change that, unless you are able to turn back time...
2007-01-04 14:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That's deep seated stuff. It will never change.
2007-01-04 13:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋