my dad had had 3 sons from a previous relationship i want to find them where do i start?
i have tried births deaths and marridges but without the mothers maiden name im stuck
can someone please show me the way...
ps my dad doesn't know i know about them as i think his ex wife treated him very badly and refused to let him see his sons so i have been told
please help
2007-01-04 05:20:50 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Pink Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It would be really helpful if you could get more information from someone. If you don't feel you can ask your dad, what about an aunt or grandmother?
Do you have their full names and do you know roughly where they are?
If so you could try:
http://www.b4usearch.com/
If you only have names you can try:
http://www.192.com/
(You need to subscribe to this - about £20.)
But unless their names are unusual you may get a very long list and have a lot of phoning or writing to do.
Good luck with it though. Family is important.
2007-01-04 05:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a copy of your dad's marriage certificate.
(from him and the first wife) it will have his first wife's madien name on it. Search for her using that. THen search for her using your dad's last name.
If she is not married, one of those names will turn up.
YOur brothers SHOULD have your dad's last name if he was married to your brother's mom when they were born.
If you know the state, it should be easy to find them.
I am not sure how old you are but are you sure you really want to find them?
Even know your dad says that his ex was very mean to them (or that is the story you have been told), your brothers may have been told something very different.
They might resent you and your relationship with their dad.
They might think that their dad is scum. They might want to come after your dad for child support money that they think he owes them. YOur dad will NOT be happy with this if this happens.
I would have a hard time hearing from anyone concerned with my dad if he left me (even if my mother was a bytch) after all the kids were blameless in this whole thing. They might use you to find him and this whole thing could blow up in your face, are you prepared to deal with this outcome! If you decide yes,
GOOD LUCK on your search. I hope I am wrong about how you are recieved by your brothers but just want you to be aware that it might not be the great reunion that you had hoped for.
2007-01-04 13:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try www.familysearch.com. you can search in the state they were born. That should give you the maternal info you need to go to the courthouse. Do you have they actual birth dates/ That would help also.
2007-01-04 13:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Pat Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were in the UK and if you email me the time span of that relationship and your dad's surname (and if they were married or not) i will search for you
good luck.
2007-01-05 19:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by rabiyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try social services,they might have been put into care.
2007-01-08 13:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dad first
2007-01-04 13:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this website
2007-01-04 14:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by RACHEL FEV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.findmypast.com
This site should get you going....
2007-01-04 13:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by Chεεrs [uk] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAURY POVICH OR MONTEL WILLIAMS
2007-01-04 13:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by lil momma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋