my girlfriend was a stripper when we met. she did this for 2 years. she is now waitressing at a family restaurant and now no longer stripping. girls that used to work with her said that my girlfriend was messing around with her customers or having guys come up there to meet her, my girlfriend says that those alligations are not true and that those girls are jealous of our relationship and trying to break us up. that is one of reasons why my girlfriend quit stripping and started waitressing, and in her words too the severe paycut to avoid those alligations and to get out of the environment that she supposedly hated so much.
2007-01-04 04:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by amanda s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dated a stripper once. Yep, you can trust them. They are just like anyone else. It's just a job to them.
2007-01-04 04:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 23:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by fernande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say that in general sure u can trust a stripper until her friends tell u that other guys are visiting her or that she used to mess around wiht the guys. Some strippers turn prosties for more money. She might not have been upfront bc she was embarassed or ashamed or whatever the reason. BUT that is not kosher if u are sleeping wiht her. For all u know she could be functified by one fo those dirty old men at the strip joint. And I am sure she DID take a huge pay cut. Um racking in tips for taking off your clothes totally surpassing getting min wage for slinging pancakes. Just an FYI for ya.
2007-01-04 04:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was a stripper at one time, she knew how to work a crowd to get her tips. Therefore, I would think she could be ultra flirty or touchy if she was waitressing say a table of guys. Personally, if I were you, I wouldn't trust her not to be a flirt. Here's the real question- can you handle her being flirty? Do you think that to be cheating? It's all up to you.
If she quit stripping to ease your mind, then maybe she deserves some slack. However, the training she got on how to make her bucks is still in the back of her mind.
I hope things work out for you.
2007-01-04 04:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really was messing around, I think she would have stayed in the stripping business. Sounds like she really cares for you and she's trying to change. Plus, girls can be very cruel to other girls.. I wouldn't put it past them to make up stories if they don't like a girl.
Unfortunately, the only real was to know if she's cheating on you is to wait it out. worrying about it won't help.. and if she knows you don't trust her, it will hurt your relationship big time.
Keep in mind that your NOT dating a stripper... your dating an EX stripper.. she's trying to make a change, either for herself or for you... Trust that she loves you, he actions should show you that it's true.
Who would you rather believe anyways, your girlfriend who has quit stripping and has been with you for two years? or some strippers, who may not care about your well-being at all?
2007-01-04 04:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by blinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she quit didn't she, I think that dancers often get jealous of other dancers and like to tell lies.. I don't think that your girlfriend should of had to quit doing what she liked to do over your own insecurities.. you should trust her or just not be with her :) :) :)
2007-01-04 04:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"get out of the environment" is the key phrase here.
I'm sure she appreciates how lucky she is to have someone like you to help her adjust. This is what is important in your relationship.
2007-01-04 04:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by $Sun King$ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was an escort on the side but she need to tell you that i wouldnt stay with her if that was the case once a whore always a whore
2007-01-04 04:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy PR Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust anyone.
But then, you will never find out anything either.
2007-01-04 04:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by JustTheD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let that stuff go or you'll destroy the relationship you have.
She isn't doing it now so why give those accusers the power?
2007-01-04 04:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋