I am a good guy but it seems to me that women are attracted to men who are jerks and treat them bad. People say that nice guys finish last. Ladies, I would like to know your opinion. Do you like bad boys or good guys?
2007-01-04 04:36:34 · 24 answers · asked by Eric 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In My Opinion ..
Girls That Go For The Boys That Are Obviously Going To Break Their Hearts Are Being Foolish. Blind.
By Good, If You Mean Like Sweet, Kind, Loyal; I'd Kill For That, But Is There Any Boy Like That??
So I Like Good, But I Spose I AM Good Myself.
But I Can Understand The Whole Reason For Girls Going For That Risky Charm Of 'Bad' Guys.
x!
2007-01-04 04:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, guy above me, what an asshole. Not all women are like that, just the shallow, slutty ones. I used to go for the bad guys, but I realized what a jerk the last one was and how much energy I wasted on him. I don't think that the good guys get enough credit for the way they are. They know how to treat a woman and they honestly care and they act the same around you alone as they do with the buds. I made a mistake of letting a good guy go...but i'm glad to see him happy. I never want to make that mistake again.
Anyway, my point is, women go for guys depending on their own personal experiences. Give it time. She's out there.
2007-01-04 04:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women can't help being attracted to the bad boy but that is not who they want for a life partner. Keep trying it will work. The right women will give you a chance. Remain the good guy it will pay off.
2007-01-04 04:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like good boys who look bad. I've had enough of the bad boys who treat me bad. But I can't help but be overly attracted to the bad boy look, not to mention that bad boy sexual mentality once the mutual attraction is established.
2007-01-04 04:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to men who create sexual chemistry with them. Good guys get a bad rap in this area because too often "good guy" is equated with a doormat personality. Someone who will roll over and play dead to the girl. This doesnt create sexual chemistry at all. "Bad boys" tend to be men who tease, who arent as easy to control or get your way with, and this is why women tend to find them irresistable. We dont want to be treated bad, we just want someone who excites us, who is fun and creates energy.
2007-01-04 04:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by therapist_mindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm looking for fun or one night stand -- the bad guy might be funnier, because he'll make me relax and do crazy things I've never done before... and because I can show him the real ME and he'll truely like it and enjoy it:)))
If we're talking about relationships, marriage, kids, I'd deffinately choose the good guy - because he'll provide the stability and the security, which every family needs and he'll always be there for me and our children:)
I think I'm very lucky that I found a guy, who has a little bit of both:)
2007-01-04 04:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys are great for a quick, no strings attached kind of thing but I definitely look for a good guy for a long term steady relationship!
2007-01-04 04:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the bad boy look but the personality of a good boy
2007-01-04 04:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like good guys with attitude. Bad boys are kind of stupid and they never seem to be what woman want.
2007-01-04 04:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say I usually go for the bad guy, but you see I see the good in people, but it could come back to bite you in the _ss. Good Guys have to be exciting not boring, they have to be able to just be spontaneous. Not all good guys finish last, girls look for excitement.
2007-01-04 04:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋