Should he be cool or nerdy!
2007-01-04 04:30:13 · 28 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter what kind of guy you set out to look for, you will always end up attracted to someone who is different than what you had in mind. Putting expectations on personalities or traits before a relationship has started is setting it up for failure. Just go out and be you, you will find someone that flips your switch and you will be tickled about it. The man I ended up marrying is NOTHING like any of the other guys I had dated, and we are complete opposites. You just never know. Good luck, and take care! :)
2007-01-04 04:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should look for the kind that makes you feel good about youself.
Cool or nerdy doesnt matter. I have found that cool is pleasing to the eye, but not always friendly. Nerdy guys are usually really sweet and very nice to women, however they can be mean as well.
Its important to do what feels right to you. If you are not happy and your feelings are being hurt by the guy then he is not right for you. Its not about looks. Cool guys can be nice Nerdy guys can be mean there are exceptions.
In school i used to like cool guys, but I learned that nerdy guys can be cool too.
2007-01-04 12:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by pegasis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever kind you like the most. Mainly the kind that will treat you like you need to be and supposed to be treated. Also with a good personality and excepts you for who you are.
2007-01-04 12:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by carol d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy that treats you right. A man that you will have fun with,
one that will like you for who you are, one that makes you laugh.
When the looks fade all that you will have is the personality......
so pick a good one.
2007-01-04 12:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought nerdy was cool now adays. Then again I think..nerds are hot!
2007-01-04 12:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both! go for cool and nerdy!! YEAH! make sure he doesnt smoke/drink/or do drugs!
Make sure hes into u for u not sex. Also He's gotta treat u right and u gotta be able to talk to him. :-D
goodluck!
Kay-bianca
2007-01-04 12:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kay-Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aim for cool with a good personality. If he has a bad personality then you won't wanna be around him much and if he's ugly then you won't wanna look at him.
2007-01-04 12:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are looking for a man look for someone who is going to treat you like a queen. Look for someone who will love you for you and not someone who wants to change you.
2007-01-04 12:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Leah H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about: Employed, Saved & Loving?
2007-01-04 12:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind that you are attracted to. No one else can answer this for you
2007-01-04 12:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋