On December 30, of 2006 i had sex for the first time.. And the first time we used a condom but the second time we didnt. He told me he pulled it out before he could let any get in me but i still am not sure.. Im freaking out cause my parents would freak out if im pregnant. Im only 15. I dont know what to do cause its only been 6 days since it happen but i still want to make sure. Ive been cramping in my stomache (the week before that i was on my period, so i dont think its from my period.) Ive had a couple of headaches. Im just scared. Could you help me out.. PLease
2007-01-04 04:30:00 · 12 answers · asked by MMP 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
aww i hope you had a good first time. but it's a shame he doesn't know what he's talking about with the condom thing - he should always wear one, pulling out doesn't really work. also scince your young that makes you more fertile & so does the fact that you only just started doing it. i take it you didn't take a morning after pill? you should've done but it's too late for that now. the only thing to do is wait til the day your period is due and take a test. even if you start bleeding bang on time, because it's still possible and you'll be paranoid. if it comes up positive there's options available; abortion, adoption, and your parents might well freak but they're still your parents and they will still love and support you. it might help to tell your mother about this now, that's what i did when i found myself in the same situation, age 16.
if your test comes up negative and your period doesn't start don't worry; that'll be due to stress. and GET ON THE PILL.
good luck and in future play safe.
2007-01-04 05:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dosent sound like you are pregnant. the cramping after having sex for the first time is probally normal. the headaches are probally from being stressed out. dont worry untill you have missed your period. after you are sure you are not pregnant and start your period, i would look into some birth control. if you are going to have sex at a young age (or any age for that matter) as long as you dont want kids, its always best to be safe. dont be afraid to talk to a dr, they are there for you. if you are too scared to talk to your parents about it, mabye you should find an adult that will help you through this, and go with you to a dr. but, the best way to prevent pregnancy and STD's is abstinence. you're young sweetie, you still have time to be a teenager. enjoy being young while you can. i hope everything turns out ok, take care and be more careful in the future!
2007-01-04 05:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The soonest you can take a home test is 5 days before your next period. I suggest waiting until 3 days of missing it. If you are going to have sex @ 15(which I don't suggest) use condoms!!!
2007-01-04 04:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by grand96prix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the doctors and speak to them to get advice, (it's most likely you won't be pregnant) - but it's best to get it checked out. They may suggest the morning after pill, which they could use - but also you should ask about the contraceptive pill if you're going to be having sex - and don't be embarrased, these people are there to help you. Also, it's very common to feel worried about this after your first time, but you need to speak to someone who will help you and give some good advice.
2007-01-04 04:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you miss ur period, then buy a home urine testing kit & check... those are not very reliable though, sometimes, but then u could take a blood test to be sure if u still feel somethings amiss!
2007-01-04 04:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by MicD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont get your next periods...I mean, I doesnt come in time. If your next period is about 5-10 days late then I think you are pregnant.
2007-01-04 04:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are most likely not pregnant. in order to become pregnant, u must be ovulating and the guy must ejaculate inside u. if he pulled out, u have a close to slim chance of becoming pregnant. either way, u should take a pregnancy test after u miss your period.
2007-01-04 07:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by hellokitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would freak out if I were your mother too. YOUR 15!!!!!!!! but anyways, wait till hyour next period is due, if it doesnt come, then take a HPT. And just so you know, when you and a man have sex, he releases what's called "pre-***" which ALSO CONTAINS SPERM. so even if he pulls out, sperm is left inside your body.!! Please ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!
2007-01-04 04:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* test!!! I know u are only 15 (why u having sex so young?) but didn't u have sex education at school????
2007-01-04 05:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know if you are pregnant is to take a test
2007-01-04 04:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋