I dont mind waiting ..... as she can have me once she is comfortable and ready....
But 3 months seems like quite a long time.....
2007-01-04 04:10:01 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey I'm not going to pressure her into doing anything until she wants to.....
2007-01-04 04:22:38 · update #1
If she is not a virgin then it can be a while unless she has been badly hurt in the past..if you spend a lot of money on her then she is just using you.
2007-01-04 04:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. There are a lot of girls who are waiting to have sex right now. The common wait time seems to be 3-5 months. When she is ready for that step she will let you know, just don't pressure her because she obviously isn't ready yet. Good things come to those who wait
2007-01-04 04:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a really lovely guy, if its been that long I would ask her if she won't to keep the relationship as more friends or if there is a chance she feels anything more for you. Say that your feelings have grown and you would like to go to the next step in a loving relationship,and ask her if she has a problem with that. But I would say something. She maybe very shy on the matter of close relationships, or she may have had a bad one. Sheila.
2007-01-07 22:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by she shaw sea shore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not too long at all, we girls like to feel safe and secure and we make sure that the guy won't get up and leave the minute after he gets what he wants. So my point is be patient, i mean for heaven sakes SEX is not everything in a relationship.
2007-01-04 05:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by jasmine D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very personal thing. Some people feel they want to wait, because sex can be very emotional for them and they don't want to get attached only to find it didn't mean anything for their partner. Your girlfriend is probably just waiting until she is sure in her own mind that you are genuine. Everyone is different, and everyone should be treated with respect: her body, her decision.
2007-01-06 04:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by AMY W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no 3 months is not a long time at all....there is no particular length of time..but can i ask u something ..why are you concerned about the length of time it takes before you slep with your girlfriend..you should spend that time enjoying being with her and the simpler pleasures like cuddles on the sofa, holding hands ..kissing her and saying you love her just coz u feel like it..be patient with her and when she is ready she will let you know and the sex will be much better coz you didn't pressure her...trust me on this girls don't like feeling pressured...goodluck mate..i'm assuming you're really a nice guy and not one of the many sex crazed guyz out there xxx
2007-01-04 04:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the deed after 10 days personally three months is too long I need it freqently -without going into too much detail-
However if she isn't ready do hold of its worth waiting for dont you think????
2007-01-04 04:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months isn't a long time at all. If you don't mind waiting why bother writing into Yahoo to find out! It obviously bothers you.....
2007-01-04 04:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a ridiculously long time to wait.I mean whats she waiting for?A proposal.In my opinion i wouldn`t buy a pair of shoes without trying them on 1st and the same for relationships
2007-01-04 05:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not a long time. spending time getting to know one another before getting sexually intimate is essential for a lasting, loving relationship.
and of course, all good things come to those who wait!!x
2007-01-04 04:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by zoezeph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋