Its been about two months since we broke up because I found out she was cheating on me with one of her co workers. We were together for almost 6 years. I have some good days but mostley really bad days. Its affecting me at work and with my responsabilities at home. I can't seem to get anything done and I hate to wake up in the morning. I even start to look back and feel like what happend was my foult for not giving her enough attention and focusing to much on my work. My heart says to take her back but my mind knows its not going to work and I won't be able to trust her. Ont top of that she does say she wants me back but she does not do anything to show me. I really want to stop feeling this way and get on with my life but I keep missing her. I wish I could take back time and go back to the beginning so I can prevent all of this. Does any one know what helps get over a six year relationship. I would like to here from people who have gone through something similar. Thanx.
2007-01-04 04:10:00 · 2 answers · asked by JV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A year ago I got out of a very serious relationship (i was to be married). She wanted her space, and I gave it to her. I found one of the most wonderful people after this, and am in a very serious relationship with her. I looked back later and can thank my lucky stars that I didnt marry this other girl cause I would never have met the one that I'm with now. Sometimes you just have to move forward and see what's in front of you, then you will look back later and thank god that u didnt go through with life with the other person. ===> just my POV.
2007-01-04 04:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Digi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has been two years sense my ex broke up with me. I now have a wonderful boyfriend and we have the most precious baby girl, but every now and then my ex pops in to my head and I start to miss him a little. We would never get back together, but I don't think it is so much as a miss him as it is that I miss the time we spent together. He was crazy and spontaneous, and a lot of fun to be around. I don't think I will ever meet another person like him, but I am glad thinks didn't work out. I am very happy with my new boyfriend and our baby. It will take a lot of time to get over her and maybe you never completely will, but you will find some one else that can make you happy and you will fall in love again. Don't blame yourself ether. How can anybody drive their partner to cheat? And no, she does not want you back, she wants you to TAKE her back. You can't change what has happened, so just take it one day at a time.
2007-01-10 09:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋