I'd like to think not, but I'm not so sure. It's like, all I hear is how women are looking fo a great guy, who will love and respect them and when they find that, BAM! Seriously guys, is it any wonder we get confused? Ladies, I'm starting to think I have to be a bit of a dog before I get your attention, and that just ain't me!
2007-01-04 03:45:21 · 24 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you like to be bad before you'll be good?
I believe, your heart and mind are in the right place since you know how to treat a woman the right way. Love, honor and respect are very important in any relationship and at any stage of it... To be honest, I can't imagine why a woman wouldn't like to be treated like a Lady and see the man she's with act like a Gentleman, but instead would settle for a man who acts poorly towards her and everyone else around her.
The way relationship starts out is an instant look into how the rest of it is going to go by and maybe a look into for the rest of your lives. If you treat one another with respect, kindness, patience, and understanding, you'll face this type of behavior in the long run as well. However, if you'll act poorly and disrespectful... it won't end well, no matter what.
Personally, I don't think there's really any possible way to treat someone "too well." There's either a right way or a wrong way, your heart will be able to tell you a difference between the two ways a lot faster than anyone else would. In other words, treat others the way you would like to be treated in the long run and you'll see for yourself the results that you were wishing for :)
2007-01-04 04:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stay the way you are. Men like you are few and far between... However, I don't know if a man can treat a woman too well but a woman could definetely treat it for granted. That is why you want to make sure it is a two-way street and she isn't doing all the taking.
My husband treats me awesome but there was a time in my "dating years" that I loved the bada$$es but when I really wanted a bf I looked at the good ones! :)
2007-01-04 11:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. There is a difference between love and respect and a guy you can walk all over with no backbone. Men sometimes think they're being loving and respectful when all they're being is submissive, and who wants a mousy man?
It's not that women want to be treated like crap, but we don't want a "yes" man, or someone who doesn't have their own goals, dreams and desires. When it appears that a woman wants the "bad boy" it's because he's independant and strong. Take those traits, mix them with your ability to love and respect, and you should have no problem.
2007-01-04 11:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You roll over and play female genetaila for a girl and she's call you one as she walks out the door.
They like to be bossed around and ignored, occasionally treat them sweet like maybe 4 times a year. TRUST ME, that will get you all the ...... you want out of them, and a lifetime of loyalty.
I unfortunately can't treat a girl like that, so have no woman right now. Eventually I might try to be a dog, but I just wasn't raised that way.
2007-01-04 11:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE ADVISED NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS!!!!
Start to treat them too well..well in your own words..."BAM". They will start to think that you would do ANYTHING for them, and they think they can do anything they want to do, without repercussions or consequences if they do something completley wrong, like cheat or lie. They will start to think that you will take them back no matter what, and then they will be dominant in the relationship. **** THAT! It should be 50/50 in a relationship!
2007-01-04 11:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're going after the wrong girls. If someone has a history of dating bad boys, I doubt that she will change that. I love bad boys but I don't date them bec they don't give you the respect you deserve. Everyone is different and you have to find the right type for you. Try dating girls that you wouldn't normally date, and see how it goes. Sometimes we don't know our own types.
2007-01-04 11:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Geetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. When you treat a girl TOO well then she might think your wayyyyyy too needy. Like my bf is great but he almost treats me too well. It gets annoying after a while. I mean always saying i love you and stuff. especially early in a relashionship.
Another thing is that the girl might think your trapping her and when she (not saying that she will) wants to break up with you, she might think it will be too hard on you and she wont want to break up with you even tho shes unhappy. (sry if this is a little confussing...its kinda hard to explain)
2007-01-04 11:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kay-Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The really sad part is, some of that is true. Don't give up, there are a lot of really special women that would love to be treated so great.
2007-01-04 11:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can treat a girl to well. You can give her to much. Spoil her. She starts only wanting what you buy her, and she can't see anything except for what you do for her.
She becomes lazy. If you eat out all the time, she wont cook.
If you pay all the bills, if you get stuck in a hole, she won't get a job to help out.
2007-01-04 11:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its sad but yes there is a thing as treating women too well and you are asking them to walk all over you. Keep in mind this is not for all women
2007-01-04 11:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋