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After a huge and somewhat physical argument my man told me that if I put my hands on him again he would leave me for good. But now it seems he seems to be doing things that he really knows aggravates me. Do you think he is trying to see if I have refrained from being verbal or physical with him? Or is he looking for a way out. I just found out that his ex was physically and verbally abusive to him.

2007-01-04 03:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

I'm surprised he's stayed with you at all. Do you know what you just admitted? You're guilty of domestic violence. Oh, I'm sure you think it's no big deal; he's just a man, right? You think you're allowed to smack him a few times if he gets out of line.

Do him a huge favor and break up with him. If you hit him again, I hope he calls the cops.

2007-01-04 16:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 0 1

Of course, you shouldn't have put your hnds on him, now he is trying to annoy you so as to get your excuses. You should give him your excuses.
However, it is obvious that we can't compare hitting a physically weaker and smaller person (for example, a child or a small woman) to a man. Phtsical harm depends on the body structure. If we would give a tap in the shoulder to a baby, that would be physical abuse, if we do it with a colleague, it is just a sign of friendship. Also, it is not just a question of size but of sensitiveness. A mature person should know when they have gone too far.
The same applies to every comparison between any other two mature human beings irrespective of their sex.

2007-01-05 00:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

well why do you want to hurt him? don't think its much of a test but more of a promise. if his ex did it take that as a hint "ex" you will be to , i know your not going to stay with someone that every time you got into an argument he physically hurt you. why would he. i think you need some anger management

2007-01-04 03:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 1 0

i think if there are fights like that i think its time to move on. bc if you had a good relationship it would never go physical i think you need to move on and find some better don't ever settle

2007-01-04 03:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

He has you trapped. If you don't get physical/verbal w/ him, he'll keep escalating his aggrevating behavior until you do.

2007-01-04 03:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0 1

Can you say 'domestic violence'?! You sound like one scary chick.

2007-01-04 03:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You were violent with him? I'm suprised he's still with you at all.

2007-01-04 03:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Egghead 4 · 1 0

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