We talk a lot about different things and he said casually in a conversation about my personality "this is why I like you". He has said that we should get together sometime (after work) to do something like get coffee and talk, which we'll probably do this weekend. He stares at me. He doesn't talk to anyone else at work but me. He checks me out when I am walking away from him
I mentioned something to him (about himself) that I hadn't mentioned before and he said that friends (meaning us) should be able to talk about these things. He jokingly said that I should move to Florida with him. He wanted to go with me on a 3 hour car ride to the other side of the state. He doesn't want me to quit the job. We get along really well and have a lot in common. The thing is that I really don't know him that well and we have just started to become friends in the last few months.Also, I don't know about his sexual orientation. He could be gay or bi. He's shy too. Don't say that I should ask him.
2007-01-04 03:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Baba O'Riley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's definitely interested in relationship, he just doesn't how to put it into words u can understand. All the comment he makes that suggest u guys spend more and more time with each other is a clear sign. And if he's shy like said then that's exactly why he hasn't come around yet. It's truly is a nice guy thing. Why don't u try being the agressor. Guys like when a girl initiates things. Ask the question, tell the jokes, be the first to call the other. We like that (especially when yall star the sex). Be sure to ask if he has a g/f. If no, ask if he's looking and what kinda woman is he into (assuming that he's not gay or bi). I think the boy like ya!.
2007-01-09 22:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Well sounds to me like he might be thinking of you as a friend with further possibilities.
Leave it at friends for now and treat him as such and see what develops. He may ask you out to a movie over the coffee thing you never know, about sexual orientation, I would not press that right now as if his only interest is friendship this area may embarass him and may no longer seek you out for friendship. Good luck
2007-01-04 11:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is very carefully hitting on you, but you are right that he could just be trying to be friendly. Treat him as a friend but give him a chance when he asks things that could be dates (ie. going for coffee or lunch).
The nice guys genrally expect to be rejected so are a little slower on the move in.
2007-01-04 11:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shanna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋