What is deal with stripper chicks? They take their cloths off to survive and still talk about their morals. I was at this strip club, this stripper chick was talking to me for literally hour. I finally got tired of her chick talk and told her ok chick I will get a lap dance from u. During lap dance, she showed outreagously deep interest in me by her intense body language. So aaibmiester decided to feed her a little bit. I asked her do you work off the clock? She got all mad, she gave me big lecture on her morals and they kicked me out of strip club. What was big deal with her? She wanted more than attention, when I gave her that and she got pissed. She needs to see Dr.Phil for session.
2007-01-04 03:31:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wanted your money not you. Get over self and grow up. That is her job so she knows how to make you think she wants you so you give her more money.
2007-01-04 08:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People become what they do. I knew a girl who loved men and the attention of men, she thought it was funny and an ego boost that they would pay her big easy money to take her clothes off, it started as a goof. Then she decided she was in show business. After a few years like all her stripper friends she thought all men were pigs and the goal was to get as much money off of them as they could and do as little as possible. Your girl's morals line was just her canned excuse for when you want her to actually put out. Strippers are not about getting you off, they are about getting your money. It's a carnival and you are the rube.
What's the attraction of strip clubs for guys anyway? To me it is like paying big money when you are starved to only have not very sanatary hamburgers waved in front of your face. Maybe it is good for getting bored married guys worked up so they can go home and do the boring old lady.
2007-01-04 11:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your question is any indication of your personality, you are one shallow dude.
She didn't want more attention, she wanted more respect than what you gave her. Just because she takes her clothes off to earn money doesn't mean she spreads her legs to do the same. And that's pretty much what you implied when you asked her about working off the clock.
But my question back to you is this: If you doubt a stripper's morality so much, what are you doing hanging out in a strip joint? Sound pretty hypocritical to me. I find it amazing how quick men are to judge women and their sexual "morality" and then do stuff like you just did. Maybe you should question your own morality.
2007-01-04 11:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come down, some people are like like, somtimes when you have no money you have to do what you have to do, so maybe stripping isn't what she would truly like to do, and by you asking her if she works off the clock it may have come across that she is a hoe, or a whore and prostitutes and strippers and two different things. Strippers are more like foreplay and prositutes well there prostitutes.
2007-01-04 11:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely they are shamed by what they do, ive gone out with a stripper chick and she always told me it was like "acting" so they kind of justify it even though they are basically women that you cant really have a meaningful relationship with because they are never truely your girl, there anyone with 20bucks girl for 8 hours a day.
2007-01-04 11:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't need dr. phil. You need a clue.
She is a dancer because she is good at it. Just because it got you hard, doesn't mean she's got it for you.
You have better luck picking up a drunk chick at the bar than a dancer. They hear it all, they know all those lines. It doesn't phase them one bit.
As far as asking her if she's a prostitute, yeah that was a lame attempt on your part.
If you partake in strip clubs, then use your gentleman manners and common sense. If you want to be f*cked, go to a bar.
2007-01-04 11:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by an_awsome_woman 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you were wrong. She was just giving you one helluva of lap dance so you would give her a big tip and keep coming back as a repeat customer. Remember, she was a stripper...not a hooker or a porn star. She can probably separate her job from her real life. She may be stripping to pay her way through college, to support herself, etc.
2007-01-04 11:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok, yes strippers are lying or making alot of $ if they don't work off the clock. You asked. You got rejected. Your the one troubled by it. So there is something for you to learn too.
2007-01-04 11:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by LESLIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are paid to pay you attention. It's still just a job for them. It should've been just a lap dance for you but for some reason you started thinkin' that she might actually like you. That mistake probably cost you at least fifty bucks.
Right now your just a sucker. It won't be long before you're a "John."
2007-01-04 11:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didn't want you ...she wanted your money. If you want to see a girl dance naked you go to a strip club. If want to pay for sex you hire a hooker. You thought she was into you because, well, that's how strippers make their money and they're very good at making men think they want them. "She's dancing naked cause she wants me soooo bad, not cause this a strip joint!!"
2007-01-04 11:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was doing her job. Her job is to send you 'fake' signals to turn you on, that's what you paid her to do. Then you asked her for alot more than just a lap dance, which is a big no-no. There is an implied trust relationship between dancer and dancee that you broke.
2007-01-04 11:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋