My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, This Christmas I got a proposal and I excepted. He is a wonder guy who is also my best friend in the entire world, one thing I noticed though is I love to be intimate with him and he just doesnt seem to have the drive anymore, he tells me Im hot and sexy and how bad he wants me but when we get to the room and snuggle he falls asleep. Is this normal for a 31 year old man or could it be stress or something, Im confussed, Is there something I can do to get him to were he cant resist me?
2007-01-04 03:30:26 · 3 answers · asked by onehotmama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A tough one and I often fall into that habit myself. I'm a very active person throughout my long day and when I hit the bed I want to sleep. My partner and I try to make time that isn't bed time to be intimate or it tends to be just at the weekends when we can have a lie in the day after. It could be stress related, I find I never get enough time to relax and am still switched on at bedtime and just not in the mood. You've just got to talk about it (which men don't like talking about) but I'm sure he still finds you sexy and wants you. Good luck.
2007-01-04 03:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea --- when i was 30 i still wanted to have sex with my wife a LOT --- we would have been married over 10 years then -- so i have no idea why he is not interested --- im still interested and im now 54
2007-01-04 03:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him in the morning. And at lunch.
2007-01-04 03:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by groundzero 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋