I have no problems talking to girls, but this one girl is very hard to talk 2 i just don't know what to do

Question

Every time i see my heart stops to beat faster and faster, when we we see each other and our eyes meet i feel like i we were meant for each other, iwant to talk to her but just don;t know how to, i really want to get to know her

Answer 1

awwwww thats so sweet!!
*ahem* sorry lol

but that is different tho. Just smile sweetly and be nicer to her than the rest of them. She'll get the picture. You dont even have to say anything to her about it. Actions speak louder than words!

Answer 2

Be careful the pedestal you place this woman upon, you may make her unreachable. Your feelings are the one thing that keeps you away. Maybe she is the woman of destiny you are to be with, but the only way you will know for sure is to allow yourself to meet her. Remember always she is only a person like yourself, she cannot be more or less than that. Speak to her not at her, and always know your fear is on you, not on her. Let her know your mind first, then show her your heart.

Answer 3

Oh my golly, it is hard to have a conversation when you heart is pitter-pattering! You need to get over that and just go for it! Start with easy simple questions about job, family,animals, favorite foods or movies. It is easier if you are alone to talk too.

Answer 4

You really like this girl. Write a nice note asking her out. On the date try your hardest. You'll have a lot 2 say.

Answer 5

First thing you need to do is calm down... really, you have to ask yourself "why am I feeling like this when she is around?" you don't even know her. So, before even going to see her, calm the hell down!!! real important. you have to connect with her with something other than beauty because everyone else does that. So even if you are genuinely taken by her beauty, it will be very difficult for her to see you as different by the 100 guys who have walked up to her.

Second, You have to approach her with an objective in mind. Do you want to sleep with this girl, do you want to date this girl, do you want to have this gal as your checkers partner. what do you want from her? my experience is that you can pretty much get all you want from a girl if you are respectful and genuine (emphasis on genuine).

third, you decided what you wanna do with that girl? good, I m assuming you wanna date her. so you need to break down in pieces what you gonna have to do to get to date this girl. generally it goes a little some like this:

Get her number: Flirt with her by making her laugh (not by clowning but by sayin things that she can be thrown off by like "****, I m trying to concentrate on what you are saying but, all I think about is kissing your upper lip, it's really sexy... ok lets try again, what were you sayin" get me?

Call her: again start by making her laugh with flirting NOT CLOWNING. say something like "I m a little disapointed because you havent wished me merry xmas or happy new year" then ask for a date. ASK FOR DATE, dont just call to call OK? and here's what you can say "I m goin to the xxxx and you should come, it's gonna be fun."

Go on a date: nothing expensive, or goin to the restaurant, or movies, at least not the 1st date. Do something that requires you to talk and get sexual. I am not sayin jump her, but be flirting to the point where you get to have her come to you. Girls like being serenated if its GENUINE. It can be genuine if in your conversation she does something you find sexy, like if she is a nurse. I have a friend who is attracted to women who are knowleggeable in current events.

Kiss her: you just know when you should go for it. It usually happens when you re asking yourself "should I kiss her?", that's when you go for it, cause you re a man and you take decision. Then be the one to stop first, that should turn her on to make her wanna kiss you some more.

Some typical does and donts:
dont compliment to much especially phisical appearance, just when genuine, my rule 1 compliment in the beginning that's it.
Focus on each step I described at a time. for exemple dont think of kissing her when you are callin her, but think of flirting and gettin the date.
Focus on your body language. Real important. go see Alfie, and you'll get a good idea on how to carry yourself.
Dont take girls advice on how to pick up girls. they dont even know why they date the guy they dating. It's biological, not logical.
Dont beat yourself if it doesnt work, learn and grow
Playas go after quality, because quantities is for manwhores

After that, you make the decision, sleep with her, date her, or checkers partners. Make the wise choice.


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good luck

Answer 6

You're inlove..it really can make you nervous but you should brace yourself, you got to do your moves, if you can't talk to her face to face, you can talk to her by phone, SMS instant messaging first.
Stop being afraid coz nothing will happen if you won't do your first step,

Answer 7

well jus walk up to her and sk her, her name if you neva ask then you keep wondering about about what could be and she'll jus move on cause you not making a move! huury up because she might get man sooner than you kno then you'll be hurt buddy.