My girlfriend met this guy yesterday and she told me that he invited her to hang out with him and his friends. I have a bad feeling about saying "yes" but if I say "no" I would sound like one of those guys that get jealous.
Need help! thanks
2007-01-04 03:26:53 · 20 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Were you invited too?? If not then you have the right to be upset. Just tell her that she would be mad if you wanted to go "hang" with a bunch of girls so why does she get to go "hang" with some strange guy and his buddies. This girl seems like bad news to me. Sorry
2007-01-04 03:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question: Does this guy know she's taken? and by you?
If someone asked me over to their place, with all of their frinds too and didn't ask my boyfriend for clearance or at least invite him...I wouldn't go. I think I would feel a lot better if I asked my boyfriend first and he said "no"...maybe she wants to see that you get jealous.
But everyone is different, so in the end, HIGHLY reconsider if she says you can't tag along.
Hope that helps!
2007-01-04 11:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Vi. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that don,t sound right.I don,t understand why she would want to hang out with a bunch of guys....What would she say if you told her you met a girl,and she ask you to come hang out with her and her girlfriends?I think i would tell her No! and I would explain to her that I was concerned because she did not know all those guys and they might try to pull something,since she will be the only girl there...............
2007-01-04 11:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider your girlfriend "hanging out" with a bunch of other guys? (Guys she does not even know) Would she agree to you "hanging out" with a bunch of girls, that you just met? If so, then the two of you do not belong together.
2007-01-04 11:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask if it would maybe be alright if you could go along. and it this guy or your girlfriend has a problem with you going along then tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her going. she shouldn't want to go without you anyways if she honestly likes you. i think it's a little weird. you have every right to be upset and jealous.
2007-01-04 11:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust her?...I mean has she done something to make you feel something would go wrong w/o you there?
She just met this dude hmm???...
Ask if you can come. By going w/ her you'll est. to the other dude that your her boyfriend and that she's already involved. If that's the situation. ???
2007-01-04 11:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bronte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what kind of ppl they are. Talk to your gf. Show your concern and tell her you are a little jealous. Girls like that.
2007-01-04 11:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Terry L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if you could go along. you're her boyfriend, if she doesn't let you be there, she must be planning on doing something she aint got no business doing, then that gives you a right to not trust her, cause if her friend doesn't want you there then he must be trying to steal her from you and if she says you can't go, then she must be planning to cheat on you.
2007-01-04 11:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make the choice for her let her make it herself. You dont want to control her now do you? If she goes for it then you will know in no uncertain terms where her priorties are and if she can be trusted
2007-01-04 11:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you 2 been going out? that is the main thing if you trust her then let her hang out with him, I do it it don't bother me at all I let my girl go hang out with guys as long as she sleeps with me it's cool
2007-01-04 11:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋