I'm 16 he is 46 and he has kids older than me and I'm in love with him but it would ruin his life if we went 'public' and I don't know what to do. Help.
2007-01-04 03:24:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, first I wanna say: WTF?
Seriously... Lemme tell you a few reasons why this is wrong. And I feel you know what you should do, c'mon now, you're mature enough.
But
1. You're 16. 16 is waaayyyy too young to be sleeping with guys, or people.
2. He's 30 years older than you, that's just wrong. He could go to jail. You don't love him, he's probably just rich or something, I don't know.
3. He's your mom's ex! Doesn't that tell you a little something.
Please oh please girl.... Get yourself out of this mess. You don't love this man, and plus you're way to young. If you want a boyfriend, find someone your age. Honestly. K. I feel you know what you should do, but I tell you anyways.
2007-01-04 03:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by ViCKi!™|` 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so ILLEGAL. Your not legally an adult. How could you screw your "MUMS" ex-boyfriend. You are selfish, and a kid. Your NOT MATURE cause if you where you WOULDN'T have done this in the first place. How can you love a man who is a a child molester. He's a child molester, your probably not the first one. He doesn't love you either, a man of a age of almost 50 does not love a teenager. I bet he likes the thrill of having sex with you, sex is always good for a man double your age. Your being played silly little girl. Find someone your age who will like you for you. Don't play the bull-S**t that men your age are immature, look in the mirror Missy. What you've done shows that your not a woman but a girl who has been taken advantage of. Go public, get this pervert to leave you alone.
2007-01-04 03:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep having sex with him. So what if it's against the law, or that he's a sleezebag who will fcuk his girlfriend's daughter if given half the chance. And for that that he's supposed to be a responsible adult with children and should be setting an example. He's obviously the greatest man in the world with an excellent set of morals.
Or you would wake the fcuk up, realize that what he is doing is criminal and that he's just using you as a pincushion, that there is no future for a young girl with some nearly-50 year old loser who has no problem with banging a kid. He's not going to marry you, you quite possibly will get knocked up and he's not going to take care of any kids you have together since he's not taking care of the ones he has now. Stop being an idiot. You don't have to turn him in to the cops (although you should) but at least be smart enough to break this off.
2007-01-04 03:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
This man should know better, having children your age and older. You are only 16 years old and haven't lived enough to know what real love is. He may please you physically and sexually, but that is such a small part of any relationship.
Let's look down the road a bit. What happens when the relationship comes out into the open? Will he be an equal partner? Loving husband? Another incarnation of your dad? Do you have the skills to parent his kids? Will he understand when you want to party with your friends and he wants to stay home and watch reruns of Matlock?
Honey, it may not happen today, or tomorrow, or next month, but be assured. You will get hurt. Get away....FAST!
2007-01-04 03:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm not trying to judge you or anything but, a 46-year old man?? what have you been thinking having this kind of relationship with a guy old enough to be your father?! and yet you're scared to face the consequences of your actions. i guess you already know what you should do. better stop now. it would ruin your life more than his. you're only 16. still young if you ask me.
2007-01-04 03:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by emma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your Mom finds out well he will get in trouble. ANd what possessed you to sleep with this guy. It isn't love it's a crush and you played it. SOrry to say this but he's a pervert for doing this and you need some counseling because you don't know what love is. You are be iresponsible and he's is been a Idiot. Wish I was there to kick his pervert ***. Hope you stop this before it goes any further. ANd you can tell him if he's a man he shoudl IM me and I'll tell him off myself the pervert.
2007-01-04 03:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First: have you considered your mum in all this excitement and that you may ruin your relationsship?? Second: You are legally too young Third: You are much too young to sleep with a man so much older than you.
: Get some interests, friends of your own age.
2007-01-04 03:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by KirstenP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question about 10 times. Everybody tells you what to do - (wise up and get away from him) but you don't listen. Maybe it's because you ALSO post questions asking about what to do because you are banging your daughter's boyfriend.
You're either very sick or very confused. You need more help than anybody on Answers can provide.
2007-01-04 17:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, I don't think that age differences matter, but you are an exception because you are so young. You are 16 and should be going out with younger men.
2007-01-04 03:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋