ok so me and my ex broke up and a week later she went to her friends work and her friend tried to hook her up with him ..they exchanged numbers....i found out about and she said she didnt know him now she came out with the truth... i talked to the guy and said that her my ex's friend said my ex though he was cute and also said they talked , but i still felt bad about it...
2007-01-04 03:23:53 · 25 answers · asked by chipp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's your ex. Why do you care?
2007-01-04 03:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably didn't want you to get hurt because the break up is still fresh.
I didn't tell my last, last ex about the new guy I was with because I knew that he'd flip out since he's the insanely jealous type. I was right, when he found out (from stalking me) he freaked out, words were exchanged, a threat was made, and I got a restraining order.
2007-01-04 11:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if she's your ex, it's not really your concern. You went and talked to the guy who talked to your ex, who was already your ex at the time? No wonder she lied about it. She probably knew you would act like this.
2007-01-04 11:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were broken up with her, so her friends tried to introduce her to someone else, since she was broken up with u, she lied about it as she still loves u and hopes to go back with u and does not want to burn her bridges with u, but at the same time life does go on and time waits for no one, so if u are interested in her, u best be going back with her, and resolving your problems, as it won't be long before she meets someone new, that's just the way life is. sometimes when people split up the pain is so great that they think if they meet someone new it will make them feel good about them selves again. has nothing to do with that she has feelings for him, not yet anyway.
2007-01-04 11:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied because she knew it would upset you...she liked the attention she got from this other Dude.
Sounds like a lot of game playing going on with her, she needs to grow up...
I'm sure it does bother you...you deserve better though...find a more stable girl..she's not ready to be honest OR to settle down..
2007-01-04 11:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by weebleswobble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to not think about what the other person is doing. But I think you do just to find out if she's all wrong for you, or if she still cares. She's probably doing the same thing. But I think you should try to focus on yourself. She is doing things to move on, and you should too, no matter how hard it is.
2007-01-04 11:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is the key phrase: "me and my ex broke up"
You have to let her go and move on. You guys are not together anymore so she really doesn't have to tell you. It may hurt to see her with someone else but that's reality - pick yourself up and get on with life.
2007-01-04 11:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by efil_4_msdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you guys had just broken up and she didn't want to upset you with the fact that she's already checkin out other guys. Don't worry about it, it isn't worth your time, she's moving on, time for you to do the same.
2007-01-04 11:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship on the rocks is going to have these kinds of going's on. Normal for you both to be at least window shopping, normal for either of you not to want to talk about it.
2007-01-04 11:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't want to hurt ur feelings because she got a guy a week later. She was being nice and you shouldn't be concerned because she's not your gf
2007-01-04 11:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't want you to know because she still has hopes for the two of you. That, or she don't want you all in her business. Ask her why she lied, and go from there.
2007-01-04 11:26:42 · answer #11 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋