He didnt want a relationship at the time, but we're still pretty good friends and I still like him alot. How do I let him know I'm interested? How can I get him to see me as a potential girlfriend rather than just his sister's best friend?
2007-01-04 03:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, wait we never had sex, I wasnt comfortable giving up that much!
2007-01-04 03:28:21 · update #1
Well if you were friends with benefits with him and he had all teh benefits that comes with it. Maybe he just wants that and doesn't want you for his gf. When your friends with a guy and thenhave benefits on the side if he doesn't tell you himself he wants you for his gf. Well sorry to say that's all he wants from you, just the benefits. AND now that you have told him you want to be bf/gf and he says naw. Well he knows as friends later on he will probably get more benefits, Because he knows you like him. SO move on and get you a real bf. But you need a friend to chat with just IM me anytime.
2007-01-04 03:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't now! It's hard to undo the "do." Especially to a guy. You gave up the goodies- settling for less then you deserved, because you liked him so much. If he doesn't want a relationship with you- or anyone right now for that fact- then there isn't anything more you can do; I wouldn't have sex with him any more. It will only make you want the relationship with him more. Move on. Go get you some one who wants to be in a relationship with you- you deserve it!
2007-01-04 03:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he will ever see you as something long term...esp. after you had a sex only relationship to start off with. You could attempt to talk to him about it and see what he has to say. I wish you luck as these kind of things never turn out to be more than a piece of as*.
2007-01-04 03:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friends with benefits with a guy and he hasn't tried to make you his he probably never will. If in his mind your in the "friends with benefits" category from the get go then its like him being in the "friend" category with you.
2007-01-04 03:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most instances it is rare for a man who once considered a woman to be a "booty call" to look at her as wife/girlfriend potential.
2007-01-04 03:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are his girlfriend inpracticality.... he just simply feels unconfortable with the thought of having a commitment....
Just give him some time and go with the flow!!!
2007-01-04 03:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your around him next time and in front of others; lean over and wisper in his ear something down right hot, sexy and kinky then finish it with; if you were mine!
That would get his attention on the IF thing.
2007-01-04 03:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fwb does not turn into anything else
u are nothing but a sexual play thang...accept it for what it is
2007-01-04 03:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, hey i like you.
2007-01-04 03:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋