I must be stupid. I pick the wrong ones. ALWAYS. what are the qualities of each?
2007-01-04 03:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good man will: Love you for YOU, Love the way you do things, work hard to take care of you, always be there for you and your kids, A good man is hard to find, but I have one, he staisfys my every need, a good man wont hurt you or lie to you. I list could go on forever, but have to be a good women to!
2007-01-04 03:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by LivingMyLife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is for both, Men & Women probably. I know for sure with the women from experience.
You can tell by the way they treat others. (like friends and waiters etc;) If they are nice to you and rude to others; they are trying to hide thier true colors from you. If you end up doing alot of things you don't want to do when your with them is a give away also for them being manipulative. Just keep an eye out for thier actions with others and thier spare time, habits, and how they talk about others because they will be playing a game when with you, if they are practicing to deceive. After your married or living together, they will bore with the game and you will see thier true colors, how they are and what your stuck with. Be aware!
2007-01-04 11:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You can't tell the difference between a good guy and a loser? First, you can't look at a guy and tell if he's a "good guy" or a "loser". Ted Bundy was a good-looking guy, nice and all and he killed over 20 women.
But if you can't tell the qualities of a good guy, you are destined to get stuck with another loser again. A good guy will call you after sex, a good guy won't borrow money all the time, a good guy isn't always making excuses for why he can't see you, a good guy isn't always trying to impress a woman with external stuff like a car, his apt., his muscles, his good looks, etc., because guys who do that have nothing else to offer inside and upstairs.
My guess: you're always going for the good looking guys, who learn to be ******* because, well, they're good looking and everybody always gives them what they want so they think they don't have to work for anything, especially women. Why not stop giving Dirk Studly the time of day all the time and talk to that regular looking guy at the coffee shop?
2007-01-04 11:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Rules for dating as follows:
1) He must have a job. (not for the money to show he is responsiable)
2) He should live on his own or with a roommate (shows a cretain level of maturity).
3) No criminal record
In other words raise the bar. Judge a man on what you want out of him in the future not OOOOOO Hottie
2007-01-04 11:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT stupid. I did the same thing for years until I finally figured it out and found "the last good man on Earth."
A good guy is not self-absorbed.
A good guy is financially responsible.
A good guy is well-mannered and polite.
A good guy is sincere and empathetic.
A good guy treats his mother very well.
A good guy will never hit you. Never. Ever.
A good guy will show you that he loves you. Actions speak way louder than words.
A good guy is communicative and honest.
A good guy is able to make and honor commitments.
A good guy will never cheat on you and has never cheated on anyone in the past.
A good guy does not lie or practice to deceive.
Please note that there is nothing on this list about his looks, or his wallet (financially responsible has nothing to do with the amount of money he makes), or the number of material possessions he has. Thank you!
2007-01-04 11:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, pick a guy, know that you suck at picking a guy, and don't talk to him. Find a guy you think is not good enough for you, and talk to him instead.
To change the outcome, you must change the method.
2007-01-04 11:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no universal definition for either. Maybe you want to stop labeling guys and treat them with a little more respect. Only then you will attract people who would respect you.
2007-01-04 11:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by spot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first guy i had was a loser he never could love me it jus wasnt there he only wanted sex thats a loser a good guy is one who comes and saves you from somethin like that and immediately comforts in it with him or not letting you know your safe with him
2007-01-04 11:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r no standards for the good guy ,unfortunatly
but all i know that u must pick many wrong guys before u fing the good one
and u have successfuly finished level one
2007-01-04 11:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by HuMaN being 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think honesty, intelligence, respect and kindness would be up there on the list of qualities.
Good looking, with a secure job, and fun to be with are also VERY important.
2007-01-04 11:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋