So I was at a party and my boyfriend wasn't there because he couldn't go, and someone dared me to kiss this guy on the cheek, is that cheating?Because it was only a dare and it didn't mean a thing!
2007-01-04 02:17:33 · 18 answers · asked by Emilie C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all.
2007-01-04 02:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical acts aren't in themself cheating.
Cheating is about a betrayal of trust. Do you plan to tell your boyfriend? If the answer is no, than even a kiss on the cheek is probably cheating because it is something you feel you need to hide. You feel you need to hide it because it would hurt him to find out and if it would hurt him to find out than it is cheating.
Guys always try the "it didn't mean anything" line, and girls never buy it. Just because it did not mean anything to you, does not mean it won't mean anything to the other person.
I personally would not think it is cheating, but you are not dating me (sadly). If you think your boyfriend would consider this cheating and you feel that is wrong, it's time to shop for a new boyfriend.
2007-01-04 02:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss on the cheek isn't dishonest - this is the embody it truly is. considering embracing and hugging include body contact this customized contact must be reserved for contributors of your relatives, girlfriends, or your spouse. Europeans are extra bodily demonstrative than their American opposite numbers yet i have in no way considered opposite sex embraces between acquantances because this is considered rude to the contact someone's' body in this way till ... as reported above. the common kiss on the cheek, as you lean ahead to dodge body contact, is the perfect thanks to greet someone you already know nicely. have you ever considered the prospect that your doing this may reason the female friend of your acquaintance to change into jealous or indignant with him, or with you?
2016-12-01 19:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not consider it cheating, but what you may want to think about is if your bf did this how you would feel. You also need to know the limits of your own relationship. Both my wife and I have friends of the opposite sex and it would be completetly ok with each of us for the other to hug or kiss them. But in regards to this situation, I really don't see why you should worry about it.
2007-01-04 02:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds harmless but definitely tell your BF so he does not hear from someone else later that you were sucking face with this "dare" guy or something!
2007-01-04 02:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not considered cheating to most of us. I would tell your boyfriend though. You don't want someone else to embellish the story and have it blown out of proportion.
2007-01-04 02:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm no, I wouldn't call it cheating. what if your friend dared you to get the crabs? lol it's not cheating but I bet your bf wont be precisely happy about it.
2007-01-04 02:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Julio M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think so, but you may want to tell him what happened so someone else dont tell him, and give him the wrong idea if you know what I mean!
2007-01-04 02:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only isn't if the guy was your dad!
No, I wouldn't call that cheating
2007-01-04 02:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it didnt mean a thing to u i wudnt cal it cheating.
2007-01-04 02:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by cacorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not if it was nothing than thats what it is plain and simple.
2007-01-04 02:21:02 · answer #11 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋