Yesterday, I asked advice on how my guy friend could find dates(he's VERY unpopular w/ the girls! And he's not ugly or a deabeat either, just very low self-esteem and reclusive). A lot of people said that he should look outside bars b/c he won't find any "nice girls" there, mostly just girls looking to score. Please let me reclarify. Even a one-night hook-up would be good for him. When I asked about him yesterday, I WAS referring to a hook-up or just simply a girl that won't shut him out! How is it that all these ugly asshole guys can get girls(even after they abuse their gf, the gf comes running back to them!), but my friend literally gets slapped at "hello"? I've never seen girls act so mean/b*tchy to a guy before. So my question isn't about "how can my friend find a good little church girl"(he doesn't even like church!), but: How can my friend have an easier time with the hook-up scene? He's 26 by the way.
2007-01-04 01:55:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, if all you want for him is a one night, hook-up session, why don't you and several of your girlfriends go out with him. Ask one of your girlfriends to "throw him a bone" and sleep with him. Otherwise, take him to Las Vegas, drive him to the Bunny Ranch, and let him pick his "screw du jour".
2007-01-04 02:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What about you? Why don't you like your "friend" more than just as a "friend"? If he's so great. Unless you are seriously dating or married, maybe you should consider taking him out and giving him the night of his life. Help him get into the scene so to speak. I personally don't think a "hook up" is what he needs if he is that shy. A nice girl, whether she goes to church or not, would better be suited for him. Only my opinion. By the way, nice hat. Good luck to your friend.
2007-01-04 02:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont you have any good frnds you can hook him up with???
He probably has low self confidence. Its either because he's been rejected so many times or because something happened in his past...
Maybe he's going after the "wrong" girls. He just has to find the kind of girls he likes and then look over there.
Some girls look for guys with money rather than the nice guys.
Give him time, he just have to come out of his shell...
Dont worry the right girl will come along...
Hope things turn out ok!!
:)
2007-01-04 02:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say get him the book secrets of the alpha male by carlos xuma. Its a great book. Also if you really want him to get some have him practice his skills on you and also go out with him to bars and clubs and be at his side as a friend. It gives him social value . Also get some of your female friends to explain to him what women want in a guy. Sure it might be very conflicting, but ahve them talk about what they think makes a man. all that should be a good start for him. finally ahve him approach women in the malls or wherever and talk to them and learn abotu them
2007-01-04 02:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel it is hard to approach girls in places like bar, clubs, where you only see the person once and never. and it is hard for a shy person to approach someone at first meet. So my suggestion would be to try approaching female at an institution, like work or school. where you get to know the person slowly and they gain there self-esteem. I hope my advices helps your friends.
2007-01-04 02:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, what a bout you?
Otherwise, though, find someone with the same interests? If he's reclusive, is he a gamer? Many World of Warcraft players are reclusive, and many of them are girls that don't have any guys. If he can find one in his area, she'd almost definitely do him.
2007-01-04 01:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure he doesn't act like he's desperate when he walks up to talk to girls. I know a lot of guys like that in high school with me now and they just sort of have a way of making a girl think they want her to feel sorry for them. Just make sure that he doesn't have a whole pity act going.
2007-01-04 02:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, assuming he dosen't have really bad breath or B.O. or dress really crappy; maybe try going out with him as his "girlfriend". Sometimes women want most what they think they can't have or is already taken. As a last resort, have him put on a wedding band. This sometimes attracts women as well.
Anyway if he's that nice, maybe you should be dating him.
Good Luck.
2007-01-04 02:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by jkm65 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to help him to be charming. I love a guy who compliments me and has similar interest. I am a nice church girl but I always fall hard for the charming guys be it at rez, party, get together, etc...
PS- Why are you not with him?
2007-01-04 02:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont stick to nick purely considering the fact which you experience undesirable approximately ending the courting so quickly. you will desire to easily stick to your heart. it looks such as you and chris have chemistry and a few thing like that doesnt come around daily. purely verify youre honest with nick. you dont would desire to tell him theres somebody else yet you will desire to tell him in case you dont think of hes the single for you. you will desire to additionally ask why chris waited till somebody else grew to become into on the scene.
2016-10-29 23:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by pour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋