i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago. Since then, ive been enjoying the single life!lol
at the mo, i have 4 guys chasing me. im just getting used to the attention from guys again.
one of these guys i really really fancy. ive know him for a while. he was kind of chasing me when i was in my past relationship too.
we have kissed eachother a few times and i have stayed over his place a few times. he does want to take things further sexually though. i admit, i have been abit of a tease!lol
whenever i meet up with this guy, i dont hear from from him for weeks!he ignore my messages too so i end up chasing him. i eventually give up and he starts chasing me again, yet, when we meet up again the same thing happens all over again!
why is he behaving like this???hes the only guy im interested in!
hes the only one who knows about my past relationship as i met him through my ex. he knew my ex but they were never friends and my ex has now moved away.
2007-01-04 01:53:42 · 11 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when we are together he always wants to be around me and is always complimenting me.
we have been in contact with eachother for nearly 2 years now.
he is 29 and single.
i have heard that hes never had a girlfriend before and likes the chase.
2007-01-04 01:54:28 · update #1
It's that old saying...
Treat 'em mean keep 'em keen!!
2007-01-04 01:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Coley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have posted this question before. This guy sounds like he's not interested in a relationship and you're probably not the only girl he's chasing. The only way to find out is take it further if thats what you want - then if you never hear from him again you'll know he was just getting off on the chase. If something comes of it however you might live happily ever after. Do what YOU want to do and if it doesn't match with what he wants start looking elsewhere.
2007-01-04 10:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lost and found 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not serious and he's just not into you. SOrry, but think about it
he may not like the fact that your still fresh out of your relationship and you still need to go through the cycle of a break up.
I would stop chasing and chill on the guys for a while.
Your a chick. You should be chased by the rooster...not the other way around.
Let him Fly!!
2007-01-04 10:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lovefly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you've answered your own question when you say you heard he'd never had a girlfriend before and likes the chase. Makes you all excited, then when you're keen, dumps you.
He doesn't sound like relationship material. So if you really like him and want him, prepare to have your heart broken. Otherwise forget about him and move on.
2007-01-04 10:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had EXACTLY the same experience. It went on for years until I actually went for it with him. Within a month he wasn't turning up, or would stay up all night leaving me in bed, He apologised every time but I knew it was a case of once he'd got me , he lost interest.
I'd say don't do it.
2007-01-04 10:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kate J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats not what youre looking for, stop the games with him. Some people thrive on the chase, thats just their thing. I would talk to him about his intentions and go from there.
2007-01-04 09:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by melmc1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think he likes the chase. Sounds like he might lose interest when he catches you though. Lots of guys do. Be careful!
2007-01-04 09:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a player to me, stop chasing him and he'll prob come back, u might get sex but i wouldnt expect much more and no u wont change him :)
2007-01-04 10:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mind ur business!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very fit if 4 guys are chasing you and can't catch you still....
2007-01-04 09:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Puma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes probably got a small penis and is afraid to let you get too close to him,cast him away and go out with other three. they would probably love to give u a good seeing to ,together
2007-01-04 10:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by dereklynch111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋