When I'm alone, I'm sayiing "yeah it's gonna be easy for me to talk to a girl to be my girlfriends but when I'm about to talk to her my lips are like sticking, I can't say one word. How can I do?
2007-01-04 01:33:10 · 12 answers · asked by moviesfoxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are shyyyyyyyyy! Train your self first: Try to speak to a wall and pretend its a girl!
2007-01-04 01:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a sr. and i have had quit a bit of experience but really the thing to do is just go with the follow if your a movie man then use a line from a movie. girls arent that much different from u so just either say something stupid just whatever ur thinking and maybe a girl in the room that is thinking the same thing and there, u go u already have something in common, u think the same. being shot down by girls is just in the game brother...but that is were u learn
2007-01-04 09:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Knox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, because you are afraid of rejection(my opinion) relax take a deep brethe and just say hello at first,if she is a nice girl she will understand your nervousness, and try to help you feel comfortable, but some girls dont know that it takes guts for a guy to even say hi, i hope you can find the courage because having a relationship is beautiful and talking is the key to any relationship,
2007-01-04 09:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by slyshaunamichelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trick yourself into thinking you're very cool and everything you say is interesting. You need to work off of the 50% rule - half the chicks you talk to won't like you anyway but the more you talk to the more you'll score.
Just tell her that you're nervous talking to her. She'll think it's cute and you're sweet.
2007-01-04 09:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how old you are it could just be that you need to hang out with girls more often and dont try not to think of every girl as a possible date justr think of her as a friend and if something more develops then cool and dont just try to have a girlfriend and thats it have a bunch of girl friends because then you'll not only get to understand women better you'll be more comfortable around them
hope that helps
2007-01-04 09:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isnt to sound mean man but its a psychological thing. One that can easily be remidied. Your nervous and uncomfortable because subconscienciously, your thinking only of yourself.. How you will look to her how she would react to you. Its natural reaction but you just need to be you and if she cant accept it, then its her lost . Once you stop thinking how your every reaction affects you around her, you will be ok
2007-01-04 09:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to someone UR comfortable with and then upgrade urself.
2007-01-04 09:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by sundeep s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack confidence. therapy maybe helps.
rational thinking also may help.
you need to get a more relaxter / "i don't care what people think of me" attitude
good luck!
nervousnes leads nowhere
2007-01-04 09:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by iam_Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get some girls as friends and then work from there
2007-01-04 09:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen homz i feel the same way everytime but luckily the girl is usually attracted to me first. just get to her and tell her how hard it is for you to come rite out and say wat u saying then spit out ur real feelins man. good luck
2007-01-04 09:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by camden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋