met a guy and a bar and he's come 300miles to see me and wants to come again soon. but he seems to fancy my best friend (keeps talking about her and wants to know what she thinks of him). i asked him if we were being exclusive and not dating other people but he didn't really say anything...should i keep dating others? not that i have anyone but theoretically. i really really like him but i think he might only like me cos im a bit older than him and its 'cool' to have a bit of an older woman (he is 18)...argh sorry long question cheers
2007-01-04 01:30:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like he's after your friend. Keep dating unless he tells you you're exclusive. Don't make the same mistakes as me. Go out and date until you find the guy, or he finds you, that wants only you and he takes your breath away every time you see him.
2007-01-04 01:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh!! Sounds like an immature guy that has a crush on your best friend--you may want to leave him to his own devices as to how to approach her. And the next time he visits and wants to hang out, I suggest you ensure that your best friend is no where to be found in order to determine his level of interest. He may perceive you to be just a good friend, which is not necessarily a bad thing. It's just probably not want you expected. He also didn't make it clear that he wanted an exclusive relationship.....so don't assume that. I'd keep dating other people if it were me, and let him know that you choose to do so b/c he didn't make it clear. good luck
2007-01-04 09:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, keep dating others. He's only 18 and very well may like your friend too. He can date you both but don't pay for him to visit. And if he's staying with you, he can't date her then. He has to come and visit her.
2007-01-04 09:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I date one at a time...so if ur situation is understood u are not dating him....so date some other guy...when u will start dating this guy only date her....dont stop urself if u think u need to be ahead
2007-01-04 09:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by HB2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely keep dating others. I see nothing wrong with that at this point. What's up with this guy's manners, huh? If he's so busy asking about your friend, he should of had the balls to go ahead and get her number instead of yours. In closing, I'll just advise that you have fun with this guy, relax, and don't take him serious until he shows you through his actions that he's worthy to that extent...Good luck!!! :)
2007-01-04 09:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Justcool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep dating - He's obviously not ready for a commitment since he can't answer the "exclusive" question.
As far as asking about your best friend liking him, he's probably just looking for approval - Has she been nasty to him in the past?
2007-01-04 09:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Yo LO! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you feel like doing and wait until you specify the relationship as exclusive to not date others
2007-01-04 09:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep dating girl because he is surely dating others.
2007-01-04 09:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he may be using you to get to your friend.
I would be nice to him but not too available.
I would not be exclusive right now, it sounds like the situation is too uncertain.
2007-01-04 09:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 18 so that tells me that he thinks with his other head more that the one he should be using. You take it from there and be real with your self.
2007-01-04 09:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋